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What’s the best combination for picking up women?

Hey Guys,

It’s less about what you do and it’s more about how you do it. Just like being “cool” when it comes to picking up women, it’s less about trying more about being.

So I was on a forum and some guy said something about transition, he talks about the first stage of the courtship process, well the first stage of the courtship process is creating simply a positive good first impression, basically creating attraction is the beginning. Now sometimes your actions can create attraction, sometimes your connection, status, your direct sexuality, several things can create attraction.

I have to say whether you are being sexual, being funny, being fun, or cocky the underlying theme in EVERY single pua guru’s advice is be confident, avoid being needy.


Kids can be needy, men need to be MEN.

The goal is for you to find a tactical or guide that fits YOUR personality and character whether that is Mystery, 60 yoc, Gambler, Gunwitch, etc.

You can do about anything with self-confidence and high self-esteem and it will eventually work on a girl…. Most importantly if you are being you and aiming to find girls that want YOU not a smoke screen you post of yourself that works until she finds out you’re needy.

Picking up women is easy, don’t complicate it. The easiest way to pick up women is a small 5 combination package (though each area combines for A LOT).


So what is the best combination for picking up sexy women?


Self Confidence + high Self Esteem + Direct + Responsive male + Sexual Escalation

self confidence

Self Confidence & high Self Esteem– Self Explanatory – If you would like help in this area or need help with your Confidence you can email me ( for a list of books that can help or check out my 21 lesson Core Self Confidence and Happiness Program! There will also be ongoing tips and tricks for building your confidence on the site.


Direct- Women love when men desire them, but hate a needy guy who needs only them (of course depends on the situation and the woman). Coming in at a “high value” (self esteem and self confidence) and showing your desire does a lot more than bull shit games for pushing the process along and becoming attractive. Direct is very attractive, it’s a turn for her to be desired especially when you come from a “high value” mindset. If you would like a great read on Direct Game I highly recommend this article by Ciearan on his Shock and Awe Technique.

Milhouse coming on too lisa

Responsive male – Knowing how to react to the situation, her mood, and what she needs right now. This means coming in at the right energy. This involves not coming in at a higher energy than she can handle or more direct than she can handle. Learn to read body language. Sometimes you need to illustrate some attractive behaviors and then respond to her attraction accordingly by escalating things sexually. For an Article on the Responsive Male Click Here

remain friends with sexual tesnion

Sexual Escalation/Tension – Sexual Escalation/Tension has a LOT to do with direct and being a responsive male in all honestly when I wrote this as a rebuttal post I didn’t include Sexual escalation because when you go direct normally it begins with sexual escalation and Sexual Tension Building. For a solid Article on Sexual Escalation click here

Peace and Love,



About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


3 thoughts on “What’s the best combination for picking up women?

  1. I like to build up sexual tension when I’m interested in someone. they might not see me as more than friends but after a while they start getting this lusty look. 🙂 I enjoy it and then I take it forward to teasing…
    If the response is adequate, I might consider them for dating. But if they fail, I ease them back to the original friends status. no-one hurt, no awkward silences!

    Posted by theferkel | 03/02/2013, 4:57 am
    • Thank YOU! I agree, I consider Sexual Tension is an awesome experience…. I personally love when a woman and I just make eye contact and you can tell that sex is inevitable, it is so sexy and powerful. A good example is once I was at my work and this girl and I just stared into each others’ eyes and never touched, just got extremely close like we were about to kiss but NOTHING happened(then anyways). There was that I can’t wait to fuck you look in both of our eyes as one of us would pull back a little the other would maintain the close space(first I did and then she did). It was so awesome, so sexy, so hot…. I love experiencing that feeling. Sexual tension is essential to have in courtship but especially when you are in a relationship.

      Peace and Love,


      Posted by Science of Natural Game | 03/02/2013, 6:42 am

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