It’s less about what you do and it’s more about how you do it. Just like being “cool” when it comes to picking up women, it’s less about trying more about being.
So I was on a forum and some guy said something about transition, he talks about the first stage of the courtship process, well the first stage of the courtship process is creating simply a positive good first impression, basically creating attraction is the beginning. Now sometimes your actions can create attraction, sometimes your connection, status, your direct sexuality, several things can create attraction.
I have to say whether you are being sexual, being funny, being fun, or cocky the underlying theme in EVERY single pua guru’s advice is be confident, avoid being needy.
Kids can be needy, men need to be MEN.
The goal is for you to find a tactical or guide that fits YOUR personality and character whether that is Mystery, 60 yoc, Gambler, Gunwitch, etc.
You can do about anything with self-confidence and high self-esteem and it will eventually work on a girl…. Most importantly if you are being you and aiming to find girls that want YOU not a smoke screen you post of yourself that works until she finds out you’re needy.
Picking up women is easy, don’t complicate it. The easiest way to pick up women is a small 5 combination package (though each area combines for A LOT).
So what is the best combination for picking up sexy women?
Self Confidence + high Self Esteem + Direct + Responsive male + Sexual Escalation
Self Confidence & high Self Esteem– Self Explanatory – If you would like help in this area or need help with your Confidence you can email me (firstname.lastname@example.org) for a list of books that can help or check out my 21 lesson Core Self Confidence and Happiness Program! There will also be ongoing tips and tricks for building your confidence on the site.
Direct- Women love when men desire them, but hate a needy guy who needs only them (of course depends on the situation and the woman). Coming in at a “high value” (self esteem and self confidence) and showing your desire does a lot more than bull shit games for pushing the process along and becoming attractive. Direct is very attractive, it’s a turn for her to be desired especially when you come from a “high value” mindset. If you would like a great read on Direct Game I highly recommend this article by Ciearan on his Shock and Awe Technique.
Responsive male – Knowing how to react to the situation, her mood, and what she needs right now. This means coming in at the right energy. This involves not coming in at a higher energy than she can handle or more direct than she can handle. Learn to read body language. Sometimes you need to illustrate some attractive behaviors and then respond to her attraction accordingly by escalating things sexually. For an Article on the Responsive Male Click Here
Sexual Escalation/Tension – Sexual Escalation/Tension has a LOT to do with direct and being a responsive male in all honestly when I wrote this as a rebuttal post I didn’t include Sexual escalation because when you go direct normally it begins with sexual escalation and Sexual Tension Building. For a solid Article on Sexual Escalation click here
Peace and Love,