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Don’t wear “Cool” be “Cool”- Aren’t you tired of the “Is this cool?” or “do you think that I’ll look cool in this?”

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Cool isn’t what you wear it’s how you wear it. Too many people ask would this be cool if I wore this? If I chose this jacket with this color shirt will it work? Well I’m not going to sit there and say well that will or won’t work, I’m not a fashion guy, I have my style and I wear what I like but at the same time by no means do I have the right to teach anyone fashion sense.

Now I’m not saying you can be cool wearing anything or that one guy can pull off every style but I will say this much, one guy can wear a blazer and goofy shirt and look cool while some other guy can wear the exact same outfit and you look at him like he has no sense of style and is a low status “beta male”.

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Well what is different when it comes to these two guys?  A number of things but the two things that encompass it all are High Self Esteem and Core Self Confidence. When you are “cool” and have that swagger that radiates you wear your style, when you are a square or a tool your fashion wears you. This brings me back to my overall first point, it isn’t that you wear something stylish (though this certainly helps and I highly recommend having a sense of class and fashion), it’s that you wear your clothes and not allow your clothes to wear you.

I know from my own personal experience that it has been my body language and presence that has bagged me women. How do I know this? Well when I walk in with a $8 shirt I bought on ebay and some decent color scheme I shouldn’t be out gaming the guy in the $600 shirt, pants, tie, and shoes combo, who has the fashion of “cool” but not the aura of “cool”.

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I’ve went to do laundry in a v-neck plane white shirt and some beat up pants and built attraction. It wasn’t very difficult either; it took a whole lot of me not changing a thing about myself. My personality, aura, and presence were attractive, but certainly not my shit for style outfit. Being “cool” isn’t about trying, it isn’t about acting “cool”, it’s as simple as it sounds, it’s about being “cool”.

When I come across these guys and they say well “you’ll never be cool like that”, “what will people think of you”, and every other look for validation to be “cool” statement is absolutely 100% FALSE. It’s about you being you, that is what makes you “cool”, either you are “cool” or you aren’t “cool”, your fashion doesn’t grant you the ability to be “cool”. Keep this in mind next time you buy an outfit and think is this “cool”?

It doesn’t matter whether I think it is “cool” or some fashion guru does, if you feel “cool” wearing it and your attitude shines outside of it you’ll be “cool”. I know that because of some guys who had a horrible fashion sense so horrible in fact that they became eccentric and created their own style, in effect becoming a trendsetter and ironically becoming “cool” because of their lack of fashion (or fashion statement more specifically) that is what it is like to be “cool”.

Just some thoughts I had the other day…. I mean seriously being cool isn’t what is wearing what’s cool, it’s simply being “cool”, don’t complicate things go out and gain self confidence and you’ll gain that aura, it all gets easier afterwards.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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