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Screw Pick Up Tricks it’s all about Self-Confidence

Hey guys,

So I was at the bar the other night, ended up in a pretty deep conversation with a cute young woman who seemed to carry a bit of wisdom to her. Well I just showed you guys my favorite lesson because my ego is what I struggle with the most, actually it is something I think most people struggle with. Since this is the part I struggle with the most in my own core self-confidence I am constantly ego-aware. I am always trying to live in the present and avoid worrying about everyone’s perception of me.

A young woman overheard me talking about the ego, at some point she caught me and inquired about the conversation I had just had. She asked me my thoughts; I re-stated what I had said. Then she lit up with passion I could see her smile radiate with my words. I explained the ego, what I thought of it, and the cons of it, the pros of it. I’m very against the ego, I’ve heard lots of people talk up the ego, I however am not a big fan of it. The cornerstone of insecurities is the ego.

We covered a few topics and at some point I leaked it out that I am a little well known for body language and I was a kind of well-known member in the pick-up community on a forum. For obvious reasons I normally don’t mention my understanding of pick-up.

At a point I told her to me picking up a woman isn’t difficult, I’ve worked on myself so much that whether I attract a woman or not doesn’t change my behavior. To me learning to pick up a woman is as simple as learning to start and carry a conversation that has substance. When I talk to a woman I don’t try and pick up on her, I have a genuine interesting conversation and that raises the moment. I operate off of being me and doing it well.

My favorite part about operating as someone who has core self-confidence and not worrying about picking up a woman is I know what I want, and what I want is a woman for me, not to have sex with 1000s of women, if you are looking for a special woman rather than a one night lay my style is especially essential. Would you want to attract a special woman by starting with a lie? I mean what happens when you actually introduce her to you rather than a routine? As much science as I know I’m still a bit of a romantic and am looking for a special woman out there.

If you aren’t using tips to appear attractive but learn to actually just be attractive everything gets easier. You don’t worry about picking up women because they pick up on you. They are qualifying for you because they are interviewing for you. If you are trying to attract a woman for you why on earth would you want to attract a woman to a pseudo personality or use tricks to get the girl? I suppose if you just want to get laid you can use all the get laid quick tactics you want but if you want a woman of substance for you I suggest learning to be the best you and being someone of substance.

Do you want to get 2 months into dating a woman and she finally finds out some of the biggest things about you because you were hiding them to appear attractive (or less unattractive from your perspective)? Learn to be yourself and while she may be surprised along the way she certainly won’t be upset with WHO you are because you are putting on a “play” for her all the time.

I don’t care what book you pick up, self-confidence book, awareness, or ego book you pick up, the most attractive person you can be is you, and NOT some fake you. Go get your Core Self-Confidence, you don’t want to be 40 years old have no idea who you are or where you are going, that spells trouble for more than you (perhaps a family you created) if you limp along life’s wild path and fall down mountains along the way.

If you guys want a good confidence book here are list of some of my favorites:

Unlimited Power by Anthony Robbins

59 Seconds by Richard Wiseman

Get off your But by Sean Stephenson

A New Earth or The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

Unstoppable Confidence by Kent Sayre

Irresistible Attraction by Kevin Hogan (this is a little more Charisma based though)

Get to work on your Confidence guys it is the best thing you can do for yourself and everyone you interact with. Screw learning temporary pick up tricks, look to gain true Core Self-Confidence and just learn to adjust as you go if you want skills with women.

Peace and Love,


P.S. I’m still looking for a few more people for product reviews so if you want to commit to building your confidence today in exchange for merely telling me about your experience with the program email me for a FREE subscription to my Core Self-Confidence Program.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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