Since I’ve created my True Core Self-Confidence and Happiness Program I have been trying to figure out how to explain True Core Self-Confidence, it is so much of an experience, an aura, and feeling (I almost feel it is an emotion) than a list of traits and the ability to talk to women. It’s more than being able to stand confident, or talk confident.
If you come across a guy who has True Core Self-Confidence you will sense it. You know that guy that walks up to a girl gets rejected than goes and talks to some other sexy girl laughing and smiling as if nothing happen? THAT guy is practicing a strong Self-Confidence. His self-worth is completely unattached to any outside source or opinion. His self-confidence is within his CORE. The fact that she wasn’t interested doesn’t mean he isn’t interesting, in fact as far as he is concerned it’s her loss. That is how I feel, if a woman misses out on me, it’s her loss. That’s how you should feel too, sure you may require working on yourself some more but that doesn’t mean you can’t have that aura, awareness, consciousness of True Core Self-Confidence.
Now when you gain that True Core Self-Confidence that attitude, that emotion, behavior, mindset, and everything that comes with it is attached to EVERYTHING. Your fearless to go on to be successful at whatever you dream of because you take nothing personally. Not just women, not just business every action you take has a definitive inevitable moment of eminent success.
There may be some rough patches along the way, some may refer to it as rejection, some may refer to is as failure, but when you absorb that True Core Self-Confidence NOTHING deters you from success. The bumps in that road ahead are simply lessons along the way that require adjustment, just as you tripped and fell as you learned to walk, you’ll trip and fall as you learn to succeed. However your confidence in your inevitable success grants you passage through all your negative experiences along the way.
My ideal of True Core Self-Confidence is beyond your abilities in an area or even just you belief in yourself but also expands to your self-esteem. Your self-esteem should be outstandingly resilient, high, insane and out of this world. As my boy Nathaniel Cross has said:
It is a man who has an insane Level of Self-worth, driven by desire, not ego.
He was referring to Alpha, his concept of Alpha which happens to match precisely my definition of True Core Self-Confidence; I mean that statement encompasses so much. If you are one who meditates than I suggest you meditate on this statement as it opens gateways to much more than simply comfort talking to a woman. True Core Self-Confidence certainly contains a wide variety of traits, but without experiencing it most people think it is unrealistic, imaginative, stupid, I’ve heard it all. What I’ve noticed is these guys genuinely are clueless to the concept, their blind to the better way of life. They are unhappy, insecure, have low self-esteem, and low Self-confidence.
This feeling, this aura, this awareness is absolutely 100% real, it is an amazing experience beyond words. You may not believe it is possible for you to feel that way, you may feel that it is only in some of us. Well I would have to disagree not because I have it in me but because I know what it is like on the other side. At one point I was just another square who stared at my toes when I talked to girls I was attracted to. I couldn’t value myself, I thought every woman I was attracted to could do better, I didn’t think a woman could possibly be attracted to me, but now I feel what woman wouldn’t want to be with me. The difference is simply my comfort with me, my self-love, and my much higher self-esteem among many other things have made me into “The Man” because of my True Core Self-Confidence.
I dare you to go out and do all you need to gain that True Core Self-Confidence, I’ll admit it is hard work but it is way more worth it than the self-loathing I was once accustomed to.
Peace and Love,
P.S. After creating the program I realized as much as I know it works I am looking for more folks to try out my True Core Self-Confidence and Happiness Program. If you are interested in gaining that True Core Self-Confidence I have a few more free subscriptions available in exchange for both positive and negative feedback, just email me at Victor@TheScienceofNaturalGame.com .