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Girls just want to have Fun – Be Fun become Attractive

Many guys want to know how to be attractive, how to get women, how to escalate but there is one statement that will always be true:

Girls just want to have Fun

Do you want to know what is attractive? FUN! If you go anywhere often the person you find the most attractive (not necessarily sexually) but the person you find most attractive is the person who is the most fun or who makes you feel the best. There is a lot to be said about taking on the mindset of a kid and just not worrying about anything but having fun. The term boyish charm has its appeal to women for a reason.

Being Fun is an attractive Behavior.

You want to be attractive? Just have fun. Don’t trip on all the bull shit you hear about trying to be this guy or that guy, you want to just go out and have fun being yourself.

What should I say to the girl though? Who honestly gives a fuck? I say crazy shit to people, my tone and the fact that you would never expect it make it funny. I’ve had girls walk up beside me sending total and obvious sexual overtures, I look at them and say “umm I was standing there, will you move…” with a huge smile on my face and a very playful tone. Say whatever you want but make sure you say it with the right tone, while being playful.

Does this mean you should be an asshole? NO! I’m not giving you permission or telling you to be cocky, arrogant, an asshole, or a douche bag or any other negative term. I’m telling you to have some fun and this isn’t always at someone else’s expense. You can be playful, say crazy shit, have some fun, and everyone will enjoy your presence.

Remember how I just wrote that blog on reflective energy? Fun is a part of the same equation; people who tune into you will have fun, they will reflect that fun after all fun is contagious.They will love you having fun. In the comedy mockumentary movie Boys and Girls guide to Getting Down the girls are talking negatively about two horribly dressed guys, but then moved on and loved the fact that they were having fun. People like to have fun, and:

Those who have fun give others permission to have fun.

Think of all the beta guys in a big mafia movie the big boss gets told something disrespectful but funny and they all get quiet should I laugh? Should I hit that guy? Kill that guy? What should my reaction be? Then the big boss laughs and they all laugh with him, he gave them permission to laugh.

It’s Alpha to be comfortable. It’s alpha to have fun, something else about having fun, if you are busy having fun you don’t give a fuck about anyone else’s opinion of you. Don’t get caught in thought about all the bull shit and mental masturbation, just go out and for fucks sake have some fucking fun. (yes I mean that on so many levels guys).

I know some of you guys are like but it’s not that simple. I restate: Just go out and for fucks sake have some fucking fun.

Peace and Love



About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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