Confident women are awesome to deal with, very forward with their intentions. In order to understand confident people you need to understand one thing:
They know what they want and they go after it.
Women go after what they want a little more indirectly than men; they tend to send strong courtship signals. There are some confident women that will say what they want but more often than not women send strong signs of attraction rather than openly admit their intentions.
When it comes to a confident woman’s behavior it could be difficult to read them simply because you are in your own mind but it really is very simple they send much stronger signals then most other women. They always understand their sexuality, how to emphasize it and lure you in. Confidence comes from experience as well so you know she understands how to express her sexuality from her experience.
A woman showing her open intentions will do so with blatant sexual messages and attraction signs. It’s not that you can’t get her to admit her intentions with ease but she’ll likely give you a ridiculous sum of “I WANT TO FUCK YOU!” signs.
I want to FUCK YOU EYES
A woman that is confident and going after what she wants will look at a man with intentions and they will be obvious. She won’t take her eyes off you she may move your eyes from your eyes to her toes and back up. It’s an obvious I want you sign, when you get a look down open or escalate immediately, you’ve been approved. Sometimes she will look at you and you’ll be able to tell she is literally thinking about fucking you. Just look her in the eyes, you won’t miss it. Sometimes all you have to do is lock eyes and you will just feel it, just follow that instinct.
A woman is going to exaggerate her sexual dimensions, a woman subconsciously realizes her sexuality is emphasized and advertised by her hip sway.Confident women consciously look sexy, even if they don’t realize they are emphasizing their hips.
Preens Galore
Women know the power of preens they know it represents attraction, they know it says I want you. They will preen with regularity bringing attention to their appearance.
Submissive but CONFIDENT body language
Confident women may not look down as often but they will still show submissive signals like wrist exposure, throat exposure, and turned head. Confident body language is very similar for men and women good posture, wide shoulders, and taking up space are both signs of confidence.
Biting their Lips
A woman attracted knows biting her lips represents attraction so when she is looking at you she may bite her lips or stare at yours showing she wants to kiss you. Remember swollen lips are a sign of arousal.
She Steps to You
A confident woman is going to step to you. She isn’t going to be scared to get in your personal space, in fact it’s her goal for you to be in her intimate place so she is going to get drawn in. She is going to get as close as possible.
She’s Touchy-Feely
Confident women are going to go after what they want they are going to touch the man, grab the man, and move their hand around. I’ve had confident women put their nose to my crotch, sit on my lap, grab my crotch, grab my ass, and much more, they aren’t scared to go after you and although they may be grabby anyways normally all you have to do is comply with these women and they’ll have you.
Confident Women are Easy but…
Confident women are easy to read but sometimes they are huge flirts so they are hard to read. They flirt with this guy and that guy. They really just see it as having fun. No big deal to flirt so you may think she likes your or may be confused about her behavior with other men. Just like any other women you need to baseline her behaviors. You can’t just say oh she is a big flirt with everyone so she isn’t attracted. It’s not just that she flirts with you it’s how she flirts with you, you are looking for a different type of flirting.
Does she touch you more?
Does she stand closer?
Does she preen more?
Is she more submissive?
You want to look for her to show more signs with you then anyone else. So you look for her behavior in other interactions and compare it with the behavior of your own interaction.
Summing ‘em Up
Confident women aren’t any different than any other type of women your goal is still to look for those same behaviors but instead of just looking for them in stiffer movements like with shy girls you are looking for pretty open “I want to Fuck YOU” behaviors. Their signs of attraction are open and honest, but always baseline these women as with any other because they are also normally huge flirts.
Peace and Love
Vic
Note: You can Pre-screen for DTF women by looking for the signals as well by reading this.
love this!
Thank You doll! I appreciate the love!
Peace and Love
Vic
You are right on with this. Flirting is fun! But you will definitely know when it’s you I really want.
Right? Guys lack confidence and thus lack confidence in their ability to read women. Men need to learn to follow that instinct, when you feel she likes you accept her advances.
Thank you again for the love.
Peace and Love,
Vic
Confident women should be subtle, discreet, and classy or else, they emasculate men.
Courtship is situational there is a time to be direct and discreet. A confident woman needs a confident man, a confident man doesn’t get emasculated. A confident man will be fine and in fact use to a woman’s forward behavior.
Peace and Love,
Vic
If she smiles, yes, it means she’s slutty.
Jake,
I’d have to disagree! If she smiles it can be one of a million reasons. Sometimes it could even just be the person she is thinking about. If she smiles at you she can be attracted and is likely attracted, a woman who smiles at a man she is attracted she is not a slut.
You need to open your eyes to realize women enjoy sex just as much or more than men and it is completely natural. Your judgement of a woman who enjoys sex is a little bit pre-dated. Realize this women love sex and there is nothing slutty about it. A woman smiling at a man isn’t slutty, she is interested, her interest guarantees no sexual activity.
Peace and Love,
Vic