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If You smile, She’ll Smile Back – The Power of Reflective Energy

People often ask me why I’m so happy or why I smile so much. Why I always greet people so happily. Well there is a very basic principle I’ve learned after both study of body language and observation of it.

                People tend to reflect the energy you give them.

It sounds crazy right? Not at all walk down the street and give everyone angry looks or looks of disgust then walk back down the very same street smiling big and genuine at them.

Make sure when you go to smile at them that you smile with your eyes, or give them the Duchenne smile. You will notice that people will look at you with disgust if you look at them with disgust, they will reflect your anger. This is my favorite part though they will reflect the type of smile you give.

If you smile at someone with a tight lip “polite” forced smile, you will receive the same tight lip “polite” forced smile. However if you give a big genuine warm smile they will light up and give you a big genuine smile in reflection of yours.

Paul Ekman proved facial expressions are universal, meaning a smile in Japan is a smile in USA, a smile in China is the same as Brazil, facial expressions are universal no matter where you are. It’s also been proven that the facial expression you send brings about that emotion, forcing a smile brings on a good feeling.

Example: Think up a very emotional experience (sad, scared, angry) and imagine going through it again.

I want you to again imagine going through it but before you do I want you to bite a pencil for 30 seconds and then begin to imagine it. You will have a hard time bringing back that same emotion because of your forced smile.

So back to the original question why do I smile so much? It makes me have a good day, it makes people who I interact with have a good day. There is a reflection of “happy” energy and because of this I always have a good day.

(It’s ME!)

My smile makes me appear more attractive, be more attractive, feel happier, and feel more attractive because I receive the same smile.

So remember when you are walking around everywhere angry wondering why people are giving you dirty looks, think about what your face must look like. They are reflecting your energy, you have the power to change it. Will some people be trapped in their own world and thus render your facial expression meaningless? Absolutely but rarely will this happen if you make eye contact.

I highly recommend you understand the power of reflective energy and use it to your advantage. It can make you more attractive, charismatic, and happier.

Peace and Love

Vic

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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