When you look at a salesman he knows he has one job. To get to yes, he knows all these techniques for building rapport. He knows that a good salesmen sales themselves and believe in the product enough that the product sales it’s self. A salesmen also knows No is a temporary answer and that sometimes you have to try and try again. At the same time a salesmen knows that rejection is inevitable and that once you realize the sale is impossible it’s time to move on.
Well when you look at a good PUA he owns all these same traits, he knows rejection is something you must deal with it. For every no you get you are closer to a yes is the mind of a salesmen. This is the same with PUA you should be happy to get the no out of the way and move on to the next. One of my favorite things about 60 Years of Challenge is his mindset in regards to rejection, it’s funny laugh at it, each no out of the way is a step closer to yes.
A man with game knows a no now may not be a no later. When I look at my natural pick ups before I’d ever heard of this community it was because I was very sexually aggressive and I had confidence her no was temporary, I would back off then come straight back to her with almost a predatory style (they liked it, aroused by my arousal) I can’t help myself your so sexy talk. When they would say no I would just wait for the tension to build up some more and then go again. I just would wait then go for it again. I knew they wanted to they just needed more convincing. This is very similar to the mindset of a great PUA they know that No is usually temporary.
A PUA must sell himself, when it comes to natural game this is especially true. You must sell yourself to get the girl, you also must sell yourself to sell a product. A great thing to take into consideration when it comes to sales is in order for you to sell a product you must be an attractive person to them. In order to get a girl you almost always but certainly not always need to be attractive to her.
Most good salesmen have routines but calibrate the girl and the situation. A lot of great PUAs practice great routines that are very particular right down to the language pattern. This is the same as a good sales routine the language pattern is usually very seductive and particular because if you say it differently you can lose the value of the routine. I’m not big on routines (Natural Game is about being You not a routine) and we all have certain routines during different parts of our game (physical escalation especially we all have our “move”) but they certainly work very well when done correctly.
If you want get good with women if you want natural game it’s a great idea to take on the mindset of a salesmen, they have it right when it comes to a lot of things in regards to pick up in fact some of the best books I’ve read that have helped me in Natural Game and life are from sales books. They teach you a lot about behavior, influence, attraction, and a confident mindset. If you want to have true natural game or be a great PUA I’d highly recommend taking on the mindset of a salesmen. Remember just like being a great salesmen takes practice so does gaining true natural game or becoming a great PUA.
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