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I got in a conversation on the forum about how some fat guys get some hot girls. This was my response ( a little bit changed) so you guys can get a feel for why some hot women date fat guys, you can also check out my attraction blog as well. The response to this by izumi was:
Sad truth for hot guys
Inspiring truth for ugly guys
So I thought you guys might enjoy it:
I hate these BS conversations, yeah you need to not be revoltingly ugly to get chicks but if you want a great example of someone who does pretty good with women but isn’t a healthy specimen look at Sean Stephenson. That dude in person is huge even though you look down at him(often referred to as the 3 foot giant). Getting laid has got shit to do with looks or every hot guy would be swimming in pussy, this isn’t true so we know aesthetics are a limited way men can get laid. Physical attraction offers a lot of initial opportunities that can be ruined by a simple conversation.
Straight up- Looks don’t get you laid, they help but certainly don’t get you laid. There are plenty of examples of men who aren’t that good looking pulling tons more tail than “hot guys.” Guys who just know how to escalate, who just do it.
Women choose men based off how much they can give to their possible offspring.
Men choose women off the fact that they can hold and bring in healthy new offspring.
We are simply two different beings created for two different purposes.
It’s pretty simple, we choose to “reproduce” for two different purposes based off of our purposes in the reproduction process. Get over it, women initially show interest in physically attractive men based off the possible healthy genetics he can give her possible offspring but the fact that the offspring wouldn’t survive after or be cared for to survive after makes the possible mate useless. A woman will choose an ugly guy over a attractive guy because in reality the value of the “uglier” guy maybe far higher that the physically attractive (hot guy).
Why is this even an argument? You do “get lucky” by being good looking, however to consistently get laid you aren’t just going to be attractive. One thing you HAVE TO HAVE to consistently get laid is sexual escalation and tension building skills.
A man’s value is far more than his aesthetics (we are lucky), otherwise Bill Gates would have never got married, Sean Stephenson wouldn’t have a successful dating life, should I have to find you all these unorthodox success stories or will you guys just realize getting laid and being attractive to women isn’t all about your physical aesthetics.
Can we please put this silly conversation to rest? Honestly, being good looking does nothing but get you lucky occasionally.
Peace and Love
P.S. I highly recommend Sean Stephenson’s book Get off your “But” if you are looking for a great confidence and inspiring book.