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Why Do Some Hot Women Date Fat Guys?

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I got in a conversation on the forum about how some fat guys get some hot girls. This was my response ( a little bit changed) so you guys can get a feel for why some hot women date fat guys, you can also check out my attraction blog as well. The response to this by izumi was:

Sad truth for hot guys
Inspiring truth for ugly guys

So I thought you guys might enjoy it:

I hate these BS conversations, yeah you need to not be revoltingly ugly to get chicks but if you want a great example of someone who does pretty good with women but isn’t a healthy specimen look at Sean Stephenson. That dude in person is huge even though you look down at him(often referred to as the 3 foot giant). Getting laid has got shit to do with looks or every hot guy would be swimming in pussy, this isn’t true so we know aesthetics are a limited way men can get laid. Physical attraction offers a lot of initial opportunities that can be ruined by a simple conversation.

Straight up- Looks don’t get you laid, they help but certainly don’t get you laid. There are plenty of examples of men who aren’t that good looking pulling tons more tail than “hot guys.” Guys who just know how to escalate, who just do it.

Women choose men based off how much they can give to their possible offspring.

Men choose women off the fact that they can hold and bring in healthy new offspring.

We are simply two different beings created for two different purposes.

It’s pretty simple, we choose to “reproduce” for two different purposes based off of our purposes in the reproduction process. Get over it, women initially show interest in physically attractive men based off the possible healthy genetics he can give her possible offspring but the fact that the offspring wouldn’t survive after or be cared for to survive after makes the possible mate useless. A woman will choose an ugly guy over a attractive guy because in reality the value of the “uglier” guy maybe far higher that the physically attractive (hot guy).

Why is this even an argument? You do “get lucky” by being good looking, however to consistently get laid you aren’t just going to be attractive. One thing you HAVE TO HAVE to consistently get laid is sexual escalation and tension building skills.

A man’s value is far more than his aesthetics (we are lucky), otherwise Bill Gates would have never got married, Sean Stephenson wouldn’t have a successful dating life, should I have to find you all these unorthodox success stories or will you guys just realize getting laid and being attractive to women isn’t all about your physical aesthetics.

Can we please put this silly conversation to rest? Honestly, being good looking does nothing but get you lucky occasionally.

Peace and Love


P.S.  I highly recommend Sean Stephenson’s book Get off your “But” if you are looking for a great confidence and inspiring book.

Since writing this blog I have created a Self-Confidence and Happiness Program that contains some of the same tactics Sean Stephenson teaches to instill high self-esteem, self-confidence, and high self-esteem. Now Available: My True Core Self-Confidence and Happiness Program – This Program is dedicated to instilling Confident Behaviors in YOU!


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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