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You are a Pervert by Biology

I initially wrote this thinking of guys but I do want to say this goes both ways, I expect a woman to check out a man with just as much regularity and she owes no apology for her thoughts, lust, or fantasy I believe it’s all biological, enjoy your thoughts and your fantasies male or female!

I came to a weird conclusion when I was joking around about sex the other day with a female co-worker and she said “You’re a pervert.”  She was blowing out of proportion joking with me. I looked at her and said I actually was talking about bla bla bla. I’m pretty good at cloaking my joking that way if it comes to be any bs I can say I actually never mentioned sex, her mind perceived it that way. It shows they are the ones with sexual thoughts.

It went back and forth and I responded “Well it’s biological.” I realized right there, I won’t apologize for being a man. I like to joke about sex. Why not? It’s funny, hell it’s funny some of the faces we make during sex. Sex is one of the funniest things when you realize how ridiculous our behavior is.

Go move someone’s furniture to have a distant shot at sex, go pay for a ridiculously expensive dinner for sex, our behavior is extremely irrational when it comes to sex.

As men we are programmed to look to fertilize, at all times we want to increase our chances of having offspring, while a woman really has that 2-3 day span for ovulation(plus how long sperm survives in the female body). There is really a pretty small window when a woman can get pregnant but this is also the time she wants sex the most (not saying this to go get women pregnant but to avoid it). Note: This doesn’t mean she doesn’t want sex most of the time, it merely means she wants sex biologically the most at this point. Women check out men just as much as men check out women, they don’t have focused tunnel like vision like men, so they have the advantage of using their peripheral vision to check out a man.

We are wired to check out women. Should you guys be distasteful and disturbing about it? Absolutely not, but realize this: there is no shame in accepting the sexual mind you have. This doesn’t mean you should act on twisted thoughts but you should not feel guilty when you need to fulfill your biological obligation to want her, to look at her, to check her out. There is a time and place for everything your behavior should fit the environment, but no matter the environment don’t be ashamed when you compliment a woman with a second look.

I’m not going to apologize for my biology I will however apologize for distasteful behavior or going too far.

It bothers me the guilt the American culture surrounds sex with, it makes no sense, we almost all agree we like it, but for some reason it isn’t ok to say it publicly? Why does it have to be unsaid? I’m going to be the first to admit I check out women daily, and I don’t see it as a negative thing, I see it as unhealthy not to look. Am I pervert? A little bit but we all are, I’ll admit it right here “I’m a pervert by biology”, it’s unavoidable as a healthy male.

So as a human don’t feel guilty about your sexuality, don’t be conflicted over the thoughts you are supposed to have, but realize the cultural norm, check them out within the rules of your culture i.e. DON’T GET CAUGHT in the states. Joke about sex but do it with mature people with a sense of humor.  I’m going to take a stand for my chromosomes, it’s ok to look but it’s not ok to stare.  It’s ok to think, but it’s not ok to do at least until granted permission 😉 Realize your thoughts are natural your lust, your desires, your needs, are all biological, enjoy being a man, enjoy being a woman, enjoy your perverted thoughts after all it’s biological.

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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3 thoughts on “You are a Pervert by Biology

  1. I agree totally.

    I usually spin this into a routine where I’d accuse the girl of having her mind in the gutter.Sort of a neg with a twist to make her laugh.

    Posted by Socialkenny | 27/06/2012, 10:53 pm

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