Attraction, Body Language, Courtship, Initial Attraction, Opening Women

Perper’s Courtship Core Sequence: A Biologists outlook on Sex

Now I’ve already went over Lowndes’ perfect pick up and it holds a lot of validity but I want to give credit where credit is due and that is that she got it from Timothy Perper. He is a biologist who studied courtship in bars through observation, his book Sex Signals: The Biology of Love has a great perspective. Some folks may not enjoy the book but I enjoy any book that teaches me anything. Some are rough lessons undoubtedly (hard reads).

Perper’s courtship process is great and holds a lot of validity, like Givens I have gained some of my thoughts and techniques from him. It’s brilliant and pretty simple.

I will say this much his is a little sloppier (more humanness to it) but far more in depth. He agrees with Givens in that most of the time a woman is the first person to initiate courtship through signaling.

His first Core sequence is talking. She will either acknowledge or start reciprocating interest or you earn it. However courtship begins with talking in his model. I’ve seen folks kiss without talking but they did interact with eye contact for 45 minutes or more.

His second Core sequence is turn, a woman will turn to start showing her interest. A man reciprocates or vice versa but at some point the people start to face each other.

His third Core sequence is touch when the couple starts to turn touch may begin and courtship escalates.

It’s important to realize this can happen in 3 seconds or in 45 minutes but at some point the potential mates will begin to fully face each other and touch happens with more frequency. They will begin to fully face each other eye contact will become more intense, at some point they won’t be able to take their eyes off of you. Sometimes the woman reaches this point before the man or woman before the man, but at some point in a successful courtship sequence they begin to fully face each other.

His courtship sequence goes on to falling in sync at some point the couple does fall in sync, takes drinks at the same time, tips a head, looks at the same thing, mirrors each other, etc. This is true of any courtship sequence that follows onto sex. You need to fall into sync.

Note: If you do go straight into kissing and she just starts kissing back and you don’t fall in sync while kissing you won’t be having sex. The kiss will feel wrong to her and she won’t enjoy it. How could she, you are a shitty kisser to her.

His sequences end here, but I do agree short of prostitution sex can only happen if you begin with talking, turning, touching, and finally falling in sync.


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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


4 thoughts on “Perper’s Courtship Core Sequence: A Biologists outlook on Sex

  1. The best quote from this article is what was said that the woman is almost always the one to initial courtship.

    That is so true(however subtly).

    Posted by Socialkenny | 17/06/2012, 6:47 pm
    • Yeah, I’m a big fan of reading the signals and responding accordingly. You can see my body language videos I’m very good at reading people. Worked hard for this talent. Many men miss tons of opportunities when women send approach cues.

      Posted by The Science of Natural Game | 17/06/2012, 7:02 pm
      • It takes a guy skilled in social dynamics to be able to read AI’s and stuff.

        You seem to do a good job @ it too.

        Posted by Socialkenny | 18/06/2012, 10:52 am
      • Thank you sir, you seem to know your business as well. As I said I’ve worked very hard to get to where I am and this just scratches the surface of my knowledge. When I write a book series in the next couple years it’ll be over 1000 pages, there is that much knowledge creeping around up there. (there will be more to it than just pick up though)

        Posted by The Science of Natural Game | 19/06/2012, 1:02 pm

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