Attraction, Body Language, Courtship, Initial Attraction, Opening Women

Givens’ Courtship Process: An Anthropologists Outlook on Courtship Process

Given’s Courtship process is relatively simple, when it comes to courtship his is the most basic. I like it’s simplicity and there are certainly different things I’ve gained a different outlook on from a look at his ideals and observations of courtship.

  1. Attention- The first phase of his courtship process is attention. You need to get the attention of the person you want to hook up with. If you don’t have their attention then there is no way to advance the courtship process.
  2. Recognition- The second phase is recognition of signals sent, this is where women shine and men don’t. Women are far more intuitive than men and thus recognize attraction far easier than men. Once you gain attention you need them to recognize and reciprocate some interest.
  3. Interaction- This is the part I call the interview because this is the part where most men make it or break it. You either get the job or you don’t. Interaction is the phase after recognition but recognition doesn’t always mean she is already attracted. You can gain attraction in the interaction phase.
  4. Touch- Touch is the next part of courtship process. It’s pretty basic, you can touch within the first bit or even to start the interaction (“accidently” bumping shoulders). Touch is obviously a very important part of courtship it helps build a connection and elevate the sexual tension.
  5. Sex- Obviously this would be the final phase of courtship. The final phase to attempting to continue the species is sex.

Given’s courtship process is really the most general but when you think about it there is a lot contained within each. Attention is usually started out by women (how they dress, eye contact, etc.), they actually normally start the courtship process though it’s commonly thought men make the first move.


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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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