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One of my Openings: The Risk Free No Rejection Technique

There is something about my style that has a very high success rate. A friend and I were chatting the other day and he asked me something about choosing one of the two girls who are friends he is attracted to, I said something like the women will sort out which one you get you don’t always get to choose if one of the women called “dibs” on you. So what do I do? I attract them all sort it out later. It sounds weird but if a woman isn’t attracted to me so be it, she won’t be for me if I’m not her type. My basic overall style is being attractive and responding should I choose to from there.

Given 5 Phases

Before I get into my style in how to open never get rejected I’m going to get nerdy and briefly talk about Givens 5 phases of courtship. I have a different type of style because of my studies, I look at courtship as pretty simple though I have a mix of all the courtship processes I studied in my head I like to use the simplest to outline the process and the rest of them sort of interact to create the rest of my courtship process.

Attention

First phase is to get the interest of the intended target. Peacocks use their bright tells to get attention.

Recognition

The second phase is recognition, this is usually eye contact when the two identify the initial attraction and agree on it.

Interaction

Talking is the third step for Givens I prefer to call it interaction as I’ve watched a kid not talk to a woman for 45 minutes kiss her, then talked and got her number. We interact with people we like if we have a choice.

Touch

When you close the distance you eventually get to touch. We start to touch those we are attracted to.

Sex

His final phase is sex, obvious and pretty simple really.

We are only going to go into the first 3 phases.

My Style

Now when it comes to my style of pick up I use a game that really lets me never get shot down, because I never make the first move and I build initial interest. It’s a weird tactic but I use peacocking behaviors to attract attention. I happen to have a loud personality, I laugh, I joke, I have fun, and I have charisma. I say witty things and my body language seems to have presence (as I’ve had people remark). This sounds egotistical but really I am trying to describe things I’ve worked hard to gain, so if it sounds like an ego stroke I apologize it is really me trying to describe my personality to you guys and how I am.

Normally if I have a target I might walk over with a friend to the area, maybe while she is grabbing a drink so it is natural. Then I joke with my friend and laugh a little, I have enough wit to make a few remarks sitting there in line. Eventually she looks over and you gain recognition, she is at least for the moment interested enough in the situation to look at you.

You must respond to her recognition or the moment passes. I happen to have spent years studying body language, so I notice a small reaction. Microexpressions (Paul Ekman discovered these, Cal Lightman of Lie to Me is based off of him) are the most honest expression men and women use. So if I say something and I notice an expression or reaction with her body language I will use it. You don’t need to read Microexpressions to use this stuff it just allows me to see anyone’s reaction(they never go away).

Examples:

Two Fridays ago on the way back from the bar we stopped at Del Taco and I waited in line as I was talking with my buddy, there was a few cute girls there but there was one right in front of us in line. I was kind of drunk so I don’t remember the words but basically I bullshitted with my buddy joking around and I waited for her to react. I knew I could get her to smile or laugh. When she reacted I responded to her reaction by saying see she feels bla bla bla too. She turned and started a small talk then turned back as I talked to my buddy again. The guys in front gave it a go talking to her but she came back to me later.

Last Friday I went to the club and as I waited in line I was bull shitting with my sister and there was this cute woman in front of me in line. Same old thing I just kind of joked around about something got a slight smile and said see she feels the same. Then she turned and looked and talked for a second. Ok I’d been bsing for a minute and I couldn’t help but wonder why I couldn’t get her attention. I see later on she had a boyfriend. See this technique works regardless of whether they are interested in finding someone but at the same time it makes it innocent but fun and funny conversation to begin with thus it’s not threatening, an attractive conversation(making you more attractive) and impossible to ignore.

Summing up No Rejection

It is a very simple move that works very well as long as you have the character to handle it and the body language skills to notice something so you can capitalize on the moment. I have a pretty unique style because with my style I have them join the conversation naturally and it’s almost like they are picking up on me the way the conversation works out. After all you used how they felt at a time to open them. You were reacting to their body language open.

This is basically a no rejection technique for checking to see if she is attracted to you and your personality before you actually open, and because you are literally reacting to her body language. If you have the character to pull it off I highly recommend adding this tool to your natural open closet.

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About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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