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How to make a Woman Cum on Demand: Anchoring a Woman to Orgasm

Alright guys I went over all those blogs to get to Anchoring a woman to orgasm. Enjoy making your sexual partner cum as often as you want!

Anchor a Woman to Orgasm

In NLP and Hypnosis you learn about anchoring. Anchoring is when you get someone to repeat a behavior based on a trigger or stimulus. A lot of people don’t think of anchoring when it comes to sex, they think of things like anchoring someone to lift their hand when you say a word like “hammer”, every time you say “hammer” the person without reason lifts their arm. Anchoring is an everyday occurrence and really is just something that happens naturally through conditioning.

Pavlov’s Dog

The perfect example of conditioning and Anchoring is the experiment with Pavlov. Pavlov would ring a bell every time he fed his dog at the same time of day, the dog would start to eat with the sound of a bell. Well what Pavlov discovered was that even when the dog wasn’t eating when he rang the bell the dog started salivating as if he was eating.  This dog was anchored to salivating to the ring of a bell simply by the conditioning of feeding him when he rang a bell. This was called a conditioning reflex, or anchor as they call it in NLP.

What You Need to Anchor a Woman

In order to anchor a woman you do need a few skills among the skills you need to understand that a woman’s orgasm is purely cerebral. You can’t make her cum if you don’t have her mind. Here is the blog I wrote that should help prepare you.

You will need to understand how to give a woman multiple orgasms, the blog above will help you but it is important that you gain sexual confidence through experience and research. I don’t know of any man that gave a woman 20 orgasms his first time, most of us don’t give any. You need to learn about sex (mentally and physically) as well as the female anatomy to get good at sex.

Last of all you need to know when a woman cums, you gain that through experiences, and reading body language. You just learn to recognize a woman’s Orgasm tells.

How to Anchor

Now once you know how to give a girl multiple orgasms and when she has one, then all you have to do is consistently whisper and/or stimulate her in the way to set the trigger/anchor at the point of orgasm. In some cases you can hold their hand at the same time, rub their elbow, bite them, whatever. Then all you have to do is consistently do the action with them while saying your line and/or stimulating her in a certain way, until you train them.

  1. Figure out your Anchor (whether that is words, a stimulation, or both)
  2. Get a woman near Orgasm
  3. Use anchor(stimulus) at Orgasm
  4. Repeat steps 2 and 3 several times. Keep in mind this is a conditioned response and thus takes time to create a strong anchor.

With more than one woman I use to say a phrase right as they were climaxing and about to cum, people tend to listen when they are in a pleasurable trance (such as pre-orgasm), sexual trance makes women suggestible. I just did this several times while they were cumming, I do mean several times like 10+ times.

Note: Make sure not to do it every orgasm or it could link to an orgasm unfairly to the girl, she won’t be able to cum without it.

I recommend giving a woman orgasm through multiple forms of stimulation, this means making her cum by way of oral sex, masturbation, and sex. When you anchor a woman you should make sure to stimulate her in multiple manners, I try and make sure I give a woman multiple orgasms even before sex. Orgasms are pretty consecutive so if you already have her cumming repeatedly when you switch to sex orgasms just cum one after another. The more possible forms of stimulation giving her orgasm the more you link her to just having a general orgasm.

Don’t knock it until you Try it

If you don’t believe me try it out. Like I said you need to be able to give a woman multiple orgasms, these anchoring sessions take place over hours, sometimes even multiple sessions. It’s not a given and it requires effort but the process is a simple conditioning response. If you got any questions ask.

About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

Discussion

7 thoughts on “How to make a Woman Cum on Demand: Anchoring a Woman to Orgasm

  1. nice! One thing that can be done in addition is to add a command e.g. “and it’s getting better and better” to the anchor, which is going to amplify the effect.

    Posted by Chris | 04/07/2012, 11:10 am
    • For sures, I’ll have to come check your stuff out. I’m no specialist in NLP and anchoring during sex but it is a lot easier than people realize. I say something like your going to cum harder now and each time you’ll cum harder. I only really use these things on fuck buddies, too many women don’t deserve such a euphoria.

      Posted by The Science of Natural Game | 04/07/2012, 12:29 pm
      • Hmmmm, maybe you should be more selective with your fbs 🙂

        Anyway, ur right, anchoring is easy and very powerful. When I read your answer it came to my mind that future pacing would be a good thing to do. U mentioned “cum harder now and each time” as a future pace, but I think this one will last for the current session only – correct me if you experienced something else.

        Girls are not used to experience orgasms during intercorse in most cases. And they actually don’t know how to achieve them. If so, a suggestion of mine would be to do a trance with her after the sex at the same day. Bring the feelings back into her conscious mind and condition her to have orgasms easier.

        What do you think about this approach?

        Posted by Chris | 05/07/2012, 6:37 am
      • Yeah some women do not understand how to experience orgasms in sex, but more often than not confidence, experience and comfort are what allows her to have good sex. I’ve come across 19 year old women who had tons of orgasms with me during intercourse and I’ve met 27 plus year old women who needed clitoral stimulation for orgasm during intercourse (they don’t get to orgasm by sex).

        Me myself? I can always get a woman to orgasm by way of sex, my understanding of the female brain, how to touch a woman, and where to touch a woman makes multiple orgasm routine.

        I wrote an article on a woman’s mind during sex (love your feedback if you could), it’s http://scienceofnaturalgame.com/2012/03/28/a-womans-orgasm-is-purely-cerebral-some-how-to-tips-for-avoiding-the-horrid-faugasm/

        I would be intrigued with more of your ideas on this though. I’ve never thought to put a woman in a trance post-sex to get more for the next session.

        I will say I’ve noticed once a woman has one orgasm with you, then the next, and so on they get conditioned to you being able to give her an orgasm and thus give her more and more throughout that nigh and each session following. I aim for about 20 orgasms with or without anchoring (without most of the time), so normally a woman can have orgasms with ease after experiencing a few.

        I think that a trance after sex would have the same effect as just good overall sex. I would be interesting in hearing a lot more though, I’m all about improvement. Would you like to write a guest blog on here?

        Posted by The Science of Natural Game | 05/07/2012, 1:13 pm
  2. hey, sry didn’t manage to read your article yet since I was very busy the last days. Writing something for your blog would be nice. We better discuss this more privately. Just drop me an email 😉

    Cheers, Chris

    Posted by Chris | 09/07/2012, 11:50 am

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