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My Love for Natural Game & My Disdain for Routines; A Philosophy on Pick up Part 2

I hate scripted game, so this is damn biased. It is ridiculous to go up and have the same conversation with every woman you meet with only slight modifications such as in the timing of your behavior. My biggest problem with scripted game is it only grants one thing- situational confidence. How is that helpful? You are confident running this one game but what happens if you run into a woman in a different situation? This is the problem right here with scripted game.

You have confidence in this system and a system that works that shit will get you laid but it deletes you as a human. You lose your individuality, and I cherish my individuality. Why would I want to lose the only part of me no one can take from me? Perhaps I look at scripted game wrong and I’m sure I am but my points stands how can I be me if I’m busy trying to be Mystery, Style, or whoever. I understand you are looking to model their behavior, and some of it is good but you need to learn to be you.

Yeah learn to stand confident, learn what people do to become confident but don’t forget who you are, what you love and what you are passionate about. I know that not every woman will be attracted to who I am as a person, you can’t catch every fish in the sea, but at the same time I know the woman for me will be fine with the nerd I am. She will be happy with me. If you are a bit of a romantic like me, and hope to one day have one woman not hundreds it is a far better idea to learn to be the best you than one day tell the story of how you met your wife like every other women you’ve come across.

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After you have built the same connection you have with every other woman having the same conversation when are you going to introduce her to you? At what point if you really like this woman are you going to say “Hi I’ve used up all my material and now I’d like to introduce you to the real me, I’m —.” It may not be as direct as that but it will be a stunning moment.

Why not avoid that? Why not just get that shit out of the way when you start the actual courtship process? I mean is it wrong to think maybe you guys missed the point of learning about getting better with women? You need to start with revealing your personality to the world some information should be withheld (virginity, video game habits, your Star Wars Collection) early on so that they don’t perceive you for someone you are not. People tend to judge and if she gets to know you and likes you, your hobbies shouldn’t be a big deal. Remember hobbies aren’t who you are, they are what you do.  If she is attracted to you and good for you she won’t be against your hobbies.

Natural game is the ultimate challenge because it isn’t about gaming women – getting women should never be the center of your life anyhow-it is about you learning to become the best you. Natural game is about you advancing your life, gaining experiences, wisdom, and knowledge. If you want to get good with women don’t lie to them. Go out and have those damn experiences and when you return you’ll feel different. There won’t be any fake it until you make it. More often than not it is the truth that is unbelievable while lies are believable, we try to tell lies worthy of being true, but the truth needs no distraction it is bold enough.

Don’t rob human’s of brilliant things like courtship and romance by cheapening it with lies and manipulation. Make it what it is, a special moment where two humans connect and enjoy each other’s company not a false ungenuine moment. It’s sad that pick up isn’t about actually meeting a woman who’ll make them happy. It is about treating women horribly (negs, lies, and tricks), whatever happened to that old PUA motto “Leave ‘em better then when you got ‘em.”? Why do so many guys insist on dehumanizing women? You want to fuck something you don’t consider human? Are you into interspecies erotica? If that is the case go fuck a sheep, but don’t treat women like shit because your shitty self-esteem. Learn to be genuine and connect with people and you’ll be just as successful as the next guy.

I already gave my motivational speech, I’m over that. So what do you do if you aren’t comfortable talking to a woman but want to go natural? Just go talk to her, don’t hit on her, so what if it’s the lamest conversation of her day. Go up and say “Hi, How’s it going?” or whatever else. Go out there get shot down, hell don’t even hit on a girl, walk up and talk to her have a regular conversation, you’d be surprised how easy it is to connect with a girl if you just be yourself. I build attraction not because I hit on girls, use routines, or neg women but because I genuinely show interest in them, make them smile, compliment them, make them comfortable, and have some fun.

Just realize it’s not a big deal to have regular hello conversation. Sometimes we build up a moment to be this gargantuan thing, “oh what if she laughs in my face?” Really who the fuck cares? Nothing changed. You never had a shot if you didn’t try. This is something I’ve struggled with in the past, so many times I’d kept the motto “Never try Never fail.” Well the “I should have tried” seems to sting just a bit more than knowing she isn’t interested. If you don’t change what you are doing you will continue to get what you’ve got. If you don’t talk to women you won’t go anywhere with women. So go out and introduce YOURSELF to women not some script some guy has written so you can shield yourself from harm.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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