Attraction, Body Language, Courtship, Initial Attraction

Courtship and Submissive Signals: What does that sexy head turn show?

In the courtship of every animal there is a point in the courting when both sexes must submit before each other to say yes I am comfortable, and then it elevates to I am going through the act of reproduction with you. One of the final things most animals do before courtship ship is submit before their mate. A female dog, cat, monkey, as well as many others present their rear as if to say I’m ready to copulate.

However before animals present their rear they show many other submissive signals such as throat exposure, putting their head down, or some dogs even just lay down under them.

Here are some examples of submissive body language:

Throat/Neck Exposure – Many women turn their head slightly to the side. This exposes her throat and is a submissive signal women love to show without thinking. That head turn and exposed neck is a sexy sign that men miss.

Open Palms/Exposed Wrist – Open palms means there is no protection to your torso, you are exposing your vulnerability. Your wrists are a very sensitive area -slit your wrist for suicide- exposing them is quite submissive.

Head Down/Look Down – When your head is down or you look down you are sending a submissive signal. Many women will make eye contact with a man then look down. This is a form of submission and contrary to popular belief is a signal of attraction. I use to think quite the opposite.

Shoulders – Sometimes a woman will push up her shoulder or shyly tuck her head into her shoulders like a turtle. Another shoulder related movement is when a woman pushes her shoulder up and forward turning her head to the side.

Fidgeting – When a woman fidgets with her keys or jewelry (preening really) she is showing some submissive body language. It is an anxious or nervous signal, which shows a sign of submission. Not always attraction related but certainly worth mentioning.

Stance – Stance should be comfortable but a submissive stance would be a timid or narrow stance. Sometimes a woman will cross one leg over the other standing and will say I’m not going anywhere, I have no need to run.

Sitting – Sitting sometimes a woman will have her legs crossed(skirt they do regardless). Sitting is really situational and has to be context related. However feet normally close distance during attraction rather than run, which would be submissive.

When it comes to submissive signals you want to read them with the right combination of preens and escalation. You want them to be submissive but comfortable there is a difference between anxious submissive body language and attracted submissive body language. You should pay attention to distance, attraction, comfort, and preens in conjunction with submissive signals.


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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


12 thoughts on “Courtship and Submissive Signals: What does that sexy head turn show?

  1. Looking down a bit isn’t bad for women. It shows she’s feminine. But if she stares at your crotch, she’s a slut and that’s where you have to punch her in the face for violating your personal boundaries.

    Posted by LR | 25/09/2012, 9:54 pm
    • You missed the point if you think I believe it’s bad. The look down is a common sign of submission that represents attraction. A lot of women do it with their first initial eye contact with a man.

      The most common initial interest(attraction) cluster you will see is eye contact, a preen, and the look down. It is also most often missed by men.

      Peace and Love,


      Posted by The Science of Natural Game | 26/09/2012, 12:06 am
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