Social and Economic Value
Social Value and “Mate Copying”
I briefly went over “mate copying” it is very important to be attractive to multiple women. Our value as a possible mate more often than not is derived from the value we have in regards to what others have given them. We are told very often what we are attracted to through “Mate Copying” or wanting mates that everyone wants(males and females).
Social value has shown to be attractive and it is directly related to “Mate Copying.” Your social value is very important in determining your attraction. If you are this guy that goes everywhere and knows people, women want to know who you are. People with higher social value tend to have better social skills, more resources, and the ability to stimulate people in a positive emotional manner. Whether we subconsciously realize social value’s relationship to “mate copying” or not is arguable but a man who has a lot of social value knows how to make people feel good, and tends to have something that makes him of higher value as a sexual mate that isn’t always explainable but always quite obvious.
Stress in the “Alpha” Male
The most sexually active men (men considered most attractive) are men who lack stress. Stress and anxiety are very unattractive to women. They are unattractive to everyone. Behavior is contagious, those who are easy going and fun give us permission to have fun and go without stress as well. This promotes a positive emotion, we have already gone over the relationship between positive emotions and attraction.
A study has showed that the “Alpha” males in bonobo monkeys contained the least amount of stress chemicals (glucocorticoids). “Alpha” males also had a higher amount of dopamine injected in them. Dopamine is a chemical that is directly related to how good we are feeling or how much fun we are having. A study in the UK paralleled this thought but they used medical bills and stress related medical issues to job status. The higher your position the less likely you were to have medical issues.
Women would love to say that they aren’t attracted to a man for his money but it wouldn’t be true. Money is attractive. It is a very good parental trait to be able to support a family from a resource stand point. I’m not at all saying money adds happiness it doesn’t, I’m saying money is attractive to women. A study was done where women being asked to rate a man’s attractiveness were rated before he had a six figure income and after. The owner of his own six figure income company rated much higher based off of his income then he was when it showed his real income.
Of course it also works the opposite. A woman who sees an attractive man and finds out he has a low value job also has his value lowered. A man who was previously rated 9 out of 10 on average was introduced with a report of a low income and it lowered his value tremendously. He went from a 9 to as low as a 4 from certain women. Your value as a future possible caregiver and provider directly relate to how attractive you are.
Owning your own house is also a sign of economic value and stability, something every parent needs. A higher income can support a family and make you a possible provider who already has shelter to provide for a woman and her offspring. Yes owning your own home or having your own place (the nicer the better) can and will add value to you from an attractiveness stand point.
Your Car, Fashion, and Stuff
Believe it or not because your economic value helps represent your attraction your car can seriously boost how attractive you appear. Women were shown a man’s car to ask which car she found most attractive. Women preferred men to drive a bigger more luxurious and masculine car. They preferred they drive more expensive cars and were more attracted to men who owned them. A woman may not marry a man based off of his car but it certainly can add attraction to him by upping his own economic value. Yes your car can be attractive to her.
Your large TV, your nice phone, your clothes are all clues to your economic value, they all say oh wow he would make a good provider because look how much he already has, he can afford to have more and give more to my off spring, it’s pretty simple. It is attractive to have financial value written all over you because this makes you a good possible parent.
Conditioning- Basic Education on NLP
Each woman has a type, before I get into type I want to talk about basic thoughts on NLP. We are humans who have been programmed over time. We are programmed to react negatively to some things and positively to others. The way we are programmed is through conditioning. We think of how painful the dentist was once and in doing so are conditioned to “hate the dentist.” When we think how great a movie is we associate a positive emotion, laughter or arousal (suspense movies) are common reactions to movies that are positive. So you are conditioned to like that movie because of that feeling given by it. How we feel about things is through conditioning sometimes from one major pain, other times something as simple as a statement may change your behavior. However something conditions us to feel something.
So what’s Her Type?
Does each woman have a type? The answer is absolutely. Since we are conditioned to feel certain ways based off certain experiences, it is easy to tell what a woman’s type is. It is conditioned responses to memories of certain traits in her past. An example is she likes or hates guys who remind her of her father based on the emotion she had with him, whether that is positive or negative. She unfortunately may never be attracted to a certain type of guy based off of someone in her past.
She may appreciate brunettes because they remind her of her first high school crush. They may not like a certain type of trait on guys because of someone they resemble that treated them negatively in the past. They have a trait that reminds you of feeling bad on a subconscious level. Her type is a makeup of all the conditioning of her past relationships sexual and non-sexual alike.