The way a man moves and his emphasis on his masculinity. Such as showing his wider masculine shoulders and better posture represent a big part of attraction. Movement tells us a lot about how attractive someone is to us physically. A necessary feature in hunting to help provide is coordination, movement gives us hints and clues as to someone’s coordination. It helps show youth and health. It is most definitely something a woman pays attention to on a subconscious level.
The most attractive way a man moves emphasizes his masculinity. He also tends to be willing to take up space with his “swagger.” You should show youth and health with each movement with smoother easy movements, avoid stiff motions.
What She Wants is Different than What She is Attracted To
A woman may tell you over and over how she just wants a nice guy who treats her good. That is true here and there; more often than not a woman has an idea of the traits she wants a man to hold but it isn’t what she is actually attracted to. Why else does the Sexy Dame who can get most guys end up with an asshole? It certainly isn’t because he is a nice guy or does sweet things, which is what she says she wants. So the question is what does this guy have that his negative traits are outweighed by what she is actually attracted to?
Attraction Relationship to Feeling
How you make them feel directly relates to how attractive they see you. A woman’s attraction to you in most cases is directly related to the emotion you bring out of her. If you make her feel good, she will be attracted to you. Attraction is all about how good you make her feel. Even physically a woman who is attracted to a man is physically attracted because how he makes them feel off of looks, smell, and voice, each one part can increase your heart beat, dilate eyes, make them blush, etc. through arousal.
Good Sense of Humor
A good sense of humor is one of the things women have considered a highly valuable asset. In numerous studies it was considered the number one asset a man can have. A woman’s attraction to a man is related to how good he makes her feel. So naturally a good sense of humor is an attractive trait for a man to have. Studies have shown that when wives rated their husband as witty they were happier in their marriages. A sense of humor also often represents someone who has intellect, more often than not a funny people are intelligent.
It may be important to note that men and women have different ideas on a good sense of humor. A man usually rates a woman as having a good sense of humor when she laughs at your jokes, however a woman rates a man’s good sense of humor based on how entertaining he is.
Confidence is considered one of the most attractive traits to woman. A woman knows at the very least a man with true confidence and smoothness knows what he is doing. His confidence represents the fact that he has been with many women, whether she realizes the relation of his confidence to her attraction to him or not. A woman subconsciously needs offspring that can reproduce many times with many different women. A woman’s attraction to a man that has slept with many other women is referred to as “mate copying.” Many other women find him attractive, and there for her genes will continue to live on because her offspring will have the same attractive features of the parent.
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A decisive man is a confident man. You need to be a man, not a boy. Make decisions, understand their perspective and take her thoughts into consideration, but make a decision. Don’t say “oh maybe we’ll go here.” Say this place is good we are going here. A man who knows how to makes decisions shows he is easy going, not full of stress or anxiety (something that can disrupt his reproductive activities.) Note: A sign of an attractive “alpha” male in many animals according to studies (including the human animal we are) is low stress, high dopamines.
You can be kind and thoughtful and still be decisive by simply saying your decision confidently and decidedly, if they have an issue with a plan (taking a vegan to a bbq restaurant maybe bad for a first date) you can always modify it to accommodate but your decision should be swift and thoughtful. Not a situation where you give her the power of attraction by caring more than she does (you seek approval with your “maybes” and “kindas”), you don’t when you are telling them where you are going and when you are meeting.