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Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 3- Motion and Personality

Movement

The way a man moves and his emphasis on his masculinity. Such as showing his wider masculine shoulders and better posture represent a big part of attraction. Movement tells us a lot about how attractive someone is to us physically. A necessary feature in hunting to help provide is coordination, movement gives us hints and clues as to someone’s coordination. It helps show youth and health. It is most definitely something a woman pays attention to on a subconscious level.

The most attractive way a man moves emphasizes his masculinity. He also tends to be willing to take up space with his “swagger.” You should show youth and health with each movement with smoother easy movements, avoid stiff motions.

Personality

What She Wants is Different than What She is Attracted To

A woman may tell you over and over how she just wants a nice guy who treats her good. That is true here and there; more often than not a woman has an idea of the traits she wants a man to hold but it isn’t what she is actually attracted to. Why else does the Sexy Dame who can get most guys end up with an asshole? It certainly isn’t because he is a nice guy or does sweet things, which is what she says she wants. So the question is what does this guy have that his negative traits are outweighed by what she is actually attracted to?

Attraction Relationship to Feeling

How you make them feel directly relates to how attractive they see you.  A woman’s attraction to you in most cases is directly related to the emotion you bring out of her. If you make her feel good, she will be attracted to you. Attraction is all about how good you make her feel. Even physically a woman who is attracted to a man is physically attracted because how he makes them feel off of looks, smell, and voice, each one part can increase your heart beat, dilate eyes, make them blush, etc. through arousal.

Good Sense of Humor

A good sense of humor is one of the things women have considered a highly valuable asset. In numerous studies it was considered the number one asset a man can have. A woman’s attraction to a man is related to how good he makes her feel. So naturally a good sense of humor is an attractive trait for a man to have. Studies have shown that when wives rated their husband as witty they were happier in their marriages. A sense of humor also often represents someone who has intellect, more often than not a funny people are intelligent.

It may be important to note that men and women have different ideas on a good sense of humor. A man usually rates a woman as having a good sense of humor when she laughs at your jokes, however a woman rates a man’s good sense of humor based on how entertaining he is.

Confidence

Confidence is considered one of the most attractive traits to woman. A woman knows at the very least a man with true confidence and smoothness knows what he is doing. His confidence represents the fact that he has been with many women, whether she realizes the relation of his confidence to her attraction to him or not. A woman subconsciously needs offspring that can reproduce many times with many different women. A woman’s attraction to a man that has slept with many other women is referred to as “mate copying.” Many other women find him attractive, and there for her genes will continue to live on because her offspring will have the same attractive features of the parent.

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Decisive

A decisive man is a confident man. You need to be a man, not a boy. Make decisions, understand their perspective and take her thoughts into consideration, but make a decision. Don’t say “oh maybe we’ll go here.” Say this place is good we are going here. A man who knows how to makes decisions shows he is easy going, not full of stress or anxiety (something that can disrupt his reproductive activities.) Note: A sign of an attractive “alpha” male in many animals according to studies (including the human animal we are) is low stress, high dopamines.

You can be kind and thoughtful and still be decisive by simply saying your decision confidently and decidedly, if they have an issue with a plan (taking a vegan to a bbq restaurant maybe bad for a first date) you can always modify it to accommodate but your decision should be swift and thoughtful. Not a situation where you give her the power of attraction by caring more than she does (you seek approval with your “maybes” and “kindas”), you don’t when you are telling them where you are going and when you are meeting.

Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 1- An Introduction

Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 2- Physical Attraction

Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 3- Motion and Personality

Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 4- Stress, Economic Value, Social Value, and Type

Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 5- Drawing a Conclusion

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

Discussion

17 thoughts on “Attraction: What are Sexy Dames Attracted to? Part 3- Motion and Personality

  1. Confidence is KING!

    Posted by njorgensenblog | 13/03/2012, 5:10 pm

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