Courtship, Text Game

Text Game- Some Basic Strategies for Keeping her on the Hook, Final Part 4

Avoid Sorry

Too many times we say sorry over text. Sorry this, or sorry that, I’m not someone who is afraid to apologize, and I think a grown man should always own up to his mistakes and be willing to apologize but that doesn’t mean I’m going to apologize for taking a little too long to text back. Or because something got miss-read, I am going to text back “my bad I meant” bla bla bla. You don’t want to be too submissive, but you do want to be a humble man.

Every Rule is Made to be Broken

Ever little rule I said can be gone against just make sure it is within reason. I guess I’d prefer these aren’t rules but guidelines. You guys are trying to be an attractive person who isn’t desperate something that guys do way to often is show desperation and too much emotion through text. So yeah here and there you will be texting before they text back, but it will be for a very good reason (perhaps you are trying to find her at the bar or a concert or whatever). You will text back before twice as long. You’ll apologize, or text more serious then good. The point is to realize when it is a good idea to cross the rules and when it is just a bad idea.

Play the Game

I’ve gone over several tools you can use to keep her on the hook, you play the game. Play the game guys, courtship is a game, you have to flirt a little and be serious. You have to be available and but not to available. You need to push and pull. You need to cross the line and step back behind it. You need to give her attention and not be smothering.

This is a game, make no mistake and it is a game we all play. It is important to keep in mind attraction is like an interview you are interviewing for the position. I always loved Van Wilder’s quote when Tara Reid says “It’s not a date, it’s an interview.” His response “First dates are interviews.” You are still in your interview when you are texting so make sure the interview goes swimmingly.

Take Your Time and Proof Read

One last bit of advice guys. Texting is a beautiful thing because you have the opportunity to think about what you are saying, take advantage of this remember to take your time. Sometimes you will need a response that is within the tone of the conversation other times you need an abrupt change to get the conversation in a different direction(away from where it is going). It is important to take your time and figure out where your conversation is going. Don’t dwell on the conversation but don’t rush it either.

Proof read, please don’t forget to read what you send BEFORE you send it. A lot of times we send a text, then read it and go “oh shit.” Or you send the message to the wrong person, make sure you know who you are responding to and while your texts don’t need to be perfect, poor spelling and wording can reflect poorly on you. Auto-correct is blessing and obnoxious, your phone may put the wrong word in when start typing or even finish typing, so pay attention.

If you guys have anything you would like to add or ask about feel free. You are always welcome to improve on what I know.

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

Discussion

8 thoughts on “Text Game- Some Basic Strategies for Keeping her on the Hook, Final Part 4

  1. Hey mate. Interesting stuff, although don’t you think it might be better to call instead of text?

    Posted by Kieran Black | 23/02/2012, 12:41 am
    • Every situation is different. Sometimes calling isn’t an option and sometimes it is. Sometimes you have nothing to say when you call so a little bit of texting to start out flirting isn’t a bad thing.

      Every person is different. Some women prefer texting and some calling. I have a female friend that has as her voice mail “Do not leave a message if you would like to contact me please text me.” That is what so many folks don’t realize we all have our preferred means of communication. My dad prefers a phone call, my sister likes a text, some of my female friends prefer text and some calls. Don’t do what you prefer do what they prefer, you want to keep them comfortable. I’ve got shy girls numbers where they didn’t have anything to say(froze up) when I called. When I text them though they were all over it.

      Don’t let me change your game, do what works for you. We all have our different styles don’t take your personality away from it.

      Posted by Show Your Mind | 23/02/2012, 2:16 am
      • That’s a good point, I guess it comes down to the individual at the end of the day. I guess I personally prefer calling because it allows me to feel more of an intimate connection with the person on the other end of the line.

        Plus… I hate that waiting period in between, sometimes if you are really keen on a girl that waiting can be excruciating but I can see that many of your suggestions are designed to ensure a quick response, so I guess you have that covered.

        Great work 🙂

        Posted by Kieran | 24/02/2012, 7:38 am
  2. Thanks for the love man. These are easy things but they are things people forget. Text game is easy, it involves being playful and fun but you do need a good feel for things.

    Posted by Show Your Mind | 24/02/2012, 9:55 am
  3. great post

    Posted by Leonard Marks | 16/07/2012, 4:42 pm

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