Make Her Smile
When I begin to text a girl I have a goal in mind with more then half my texts. Make them smile. Is my text going to make them smile? It better because you know how many guys text an attractive girl playing the market? Probably 3 plus a day. One thing that will make you stand out is being a guy that makes her smile.
Flirt, Flirt, Flirt
You guys better be flirting through texts. You guys need to add a little bit of sexuality to your texts. Don’t be gross, but certainly don’t avoid the topic. I was joking with a girl recently where I invited her to a concert and she said she had work in the morning. So I text her back
“Ok so no sex, are we on”
Flirting is so important because texts can come across so bland. As someone who uses body language to their advantage it was difficult because I flirt using my observations a lot combined with a unique perspective. So make sure you guys are adding a flirting tone to your texts, women love it.
One of the biggest ways to keep and build rapport is when you have your own little inside joke. Something the 2 of you shared and no one else really noticed. It is pretty simple. So what you do is you remember a moment you shared suppose she did something really goofy.
For example if you guys are both drinkers maybe she spilled your drink everywhere last time. You might start your text off with something like “Hey Alcohol Waster,” then add some wit to it guys.
Perhaps she spanked you playing pool one day “Pool shark, wondering if you were teaching lessons this weekend?”
Perhaps she lost a close competitive game playing some pool, “Hey loser, wondering if you wanted to get spanked playing some pool?”
You are literally just looking for a way to continue on that rapport and that means reminding them of the night you guys met. Especially early on, once there is an ongoing attraction or you guys have met up then you have several different topics but early on to get a conversation started you may need to start with something similar to this.
Remind Them Why they are Attracted
You need to remind a girl why she is attracted. She may think your someone else, so signature your first message with some way she could remember you. If you joked about having pretty eyes, I use this one a lot. “Aww your just saying that because of my pretty eyes.” Or something a long that nature. So I might end a text with something about my pretty eyes, “gorgeous eyed Vic”. This falls a long with inside joke but if she really thought you had pretty eyes it can work. I also have a really distinctive goofy laugh, so I might signature it “Guy with a Goofy Laugh.” Some way to remind them why they are attracted to you.
Witty, Spicy and Funny
Be witty, witty is different. Intelligence is a a big asset in courtship, it makes you look like a great sexual mate. One thing a lot of intelligent people have is their “wits about them.” Have some wit to your messages, it is very important to show that you are funny and witty in person and through messages. Very few people have wit through their texts, it isn’t very difficult but it can certainly make you look a lot better and different then everyone else. Most people, guys especially see texting as a tool and it is but you can’t be bland and to the point in person. So why would you be able to bland over texts?