Courtship, Text Game

Text Game- Some Basic Strategies for Keeping her on the Hook, Part 2

Make Her Smile

When I begin to text a girl I have a goal in mind with more then half my texts. Make them smile. Is my text going to make them smile? It better because you know how many guys text an attractive girl playing the market? Probably 3 plus a day. One thing that will make you stand out is being a guy that makes her smile.

 Flirt, Flirt, Flirt

You guys better be flirting through texts. You guys need to add a little bit of sexuality to your texts. Don’t be gross, but certainly don’t avoid the topic. I was joking with a girl recently where I invited her to a concert and she said she had work in the morning. So I text her back

“Ok so no sex, are we on”

Flirting is so important because texts can come across so bland. As someone who uses body language to their advantage it was difficult because I flirt using my observations a lot combined with a unique perspective. So make sure you guys are adding a flirting tone to your texts, women love it.

Inside Jokes

One of the biggest ways to keep and build rapport is when you have your own little inside joke. Something the 2 of you shared and no one else really noticed. It is pretty simple. So what you do is you remember a moment you shared suppose she did something really goofy.

For example if you guys are both drinkers maybe she spilled your drink everywhere last time. You might start your text off with something like “Hey Alcohol Waster,” then add some wit to it guys.

Perhaps she spanked you playing pool one day “Pool shark, wondering if you were teaching lessons this weekend?”

Perhaps she lost a close competitive game playing some pool, “Hey loser, wondering if you wanted to get spanked playing some pool?”

You are literally just looking for a way to continue on that rapport and that means reminding them of the night you guys met. Especially early on, once there is an ongoing attraction or you guys have met up then you have several different topics but early on to get a conversation started you may need to start with something similar to this.

Remind Them Why they are Attracted

You need to remind a girl why she is attracted. She may think your someone else, so signature your first message with some way she could remember you. If you joked about having pretty eyes, I use this one a lot. “Aww your just saying that because of my pretty eyes.” Or something a long that nature. So I might end a text with something about my pretty eyes, “gorgeous eyed Vic”. This falls a long with inside joke but if she really thought you had pretty eyes it can work. I also have a really distinctive goofy laugh, so I might signature it “Guy with a Goofy Laugh.” Some way to remind them why they are attracted to you.

Witty, Spicy and Funny

Be witty, witty is different. Intelligence is a a big asset in courtship, it makes you look like a great sexual mate. One thing a lot of intelligent people have is their “wits about them.” Have some wit to your messages, it is very important to show that you are funny and witty in person and through messages. Very few people have wit through their texts, it isn’t very difficult but it can certainly make you look a lot better and different then everyone else. Most people, guys especially see texting as a tool and it is but you can’t be bland and to the point in person. So why would you be able to bland over texts?

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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