Alright guys text game is something entirely different then game in person. I had to learn both physical and text game separately. A lot of people(I did too) think oh well there attracted now all I have to do is text them and they will meet up. NOPE! You know how often a high demand woman gives out her number? Probably around 3 minimum times every week. That doesn’t include how many guys are after her on Facebook or who don’t have her number and see her and hit on her.
So my question to you: how the hell are you different from any of these other guys? Don’t be like but I’m a different guy, I’m a nice guy. SO AM I! That doesn’t mean I won’t text a woman crazy stuff. How are you going to stand out? What makes you attractive to her? Don’t be the same as any other guy.
What do I mean by be different? Well what do you think an attractive woman gets sent? “Hey Beautiful!” “What’s up?” “How are you?” “What you doing?” Those are the basic examples, but there are plenty of other rudimentary texts that get sent out. You need to throw some spice into it. Be different.
What’s different? Well different is several things but most important it is having personality. If you want to say “What’s up?” add your own twist to it. “What kind of rabble you rousing up?” I don’t want to give away too much of what I use because I keep myself original. And I want you to keep yourself original and add YOUR PERSONALITY to it, not mine.
Ok guys I don’t know if you read my building attraction with Sapphire blog but there is a balance in attraction. That means a balance in who is more attracted, who ever cares less(is less attracted) about the interaction owns the interaction. So you want to make sure you are different without being needy. You want to make sure you don’t show you care more about the interaction then them.
Maintaining emotional control is very important to illustrating confidence. Too many guys take shit personal, so what if a girl texts you back 2 hrs later. So what if one day she doesn’t get back to you. People are busy, you aren’t the most important person to her, get over it. What I mean by emotional control is sometimes we text woman things like YOU SAID this, and get all convicting. Some guys say things that are way too emotional way too early.
If you are feeling negative about a situation step outside yourself and observe your behavior, this isn’t just texting but anything really. Think about what you are texting guys, because he who cares less about the interaction owns the interaction. If you are losing emotional control you care way too much about the interaction. Maintain your FRAME, your demeanor should never be changed by anyone.