Courtship, Text Game

Text Game- Some Basic Strategies for Keeping her on the Hook, Part 1

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Alright guys text game is something entirely different then game in person. I had to learn both physical and text game separately. A lot of people(I did too) think oh well there attracted now all I have to do is text them and they will meet up. NOPE! You know how often a high demand woman gives out her number? Probably around 3 minimum times every week. That doesn’t include how many guys are after her on Facebook or who don’t have her number and see her and hit on her.

Different

So my question to you: how the hell are you different from any of these other guys? Don’t be like but I’m a different guy, I’m a nice guy. SO AM I! That doesn’t mean I won’t text a woman crazy stuff. How are you going to stand out? What makes you attractive to her? Don’t be the same as any other guy.

What do I mean by be different? Well what do you think an attractive woman gets sent? “Hey Beautiful!” “What’s up?” “How are you?” “What you doing?” Those are the basic examples, but there are plenty of other rudimentary texts that get sent out. You need to throw some spice into it. Be different.

What’s different? Well different is several things but most important it is having personality. If you want to say “What’s up?” add your own twist to it. “What kind of rabble you rousing up?” I don’t want to give away too much of what I use because I keep myself original. And I want you to keep yourself original and add YOUR PERSONALITY to it, not mine.

Attraction Balance

Ok guys I don’t know if you read my building attraction with Sapphire blog but there is a balance in attraction. That means a balance in who is more attracted, who ever cares less(is less attracted) about the interaction owns the interaction. So you want to make sure you are different without being needy. You want to make sure you don’t show you care more about the interaction then them.

Emotional Control

Maintaining emotional control is very important to illustrating confidence. Too many guys take shit personal, so what if a girl texts you back 2 hrs later. So what if one day she doesn’t get back to you. People are busy, you aren’t the most important person to her, get over it. What I mean by emotional control is sometimes we text woman things like YOU SAID this, and get all convicting. Some guys say things that are way too emotional way too early.

If you are feeling negative about a situation step outside yourself and observe your behavior, this isn’t just texting but anything really. Think about what you are texting guys, because he who cares less about the interaction owns the interaction. If you are losing emotional control you care way too much about the interaction. Maintain your FRAME, your demeanor should never be changed by anyone.

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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