After hanging out with my green eyed friend I went and hung out with another pair of friends. One is a cute blue eyed female friend of mine. Her and I flirt a lot there is a bit of attraction and sexual tension, I have had the opportunity to baseline behaviors during courtship in her case because this girl’s got game, we all joke about it. So these are some of the behaviors this girl shows.
Distance: With me she stands close, we often stand toe to toe probably around 4-6 inches apart. Base lining the distance between her and others also helps me because she is a huge flirt. You should always check for distance between her and her friends(especially guy friends) and the distance she has given to you.
She is a lot more sexual with me. We say sexual things to each other, she says her little remarks and I return some. She will step over me straddling me, this is obviously sexual it’s not like a girl goes around straddling guys, especially not ones unattractive to her. This requires the tiniest amount of logic.
With me we will talk and although she doesn’t preen a lot, she is a confident girl and doesn’t have many insecurities if any, so when she preens I always know there is some attraction there. She does the smallest things, one of the things she does is runs her fingers down the length of her hair. She will pull her shirt down straightening it. These are small seemingly insignificant actions but it is the timing of these actions that matters.
When we talk her torso completely faces me. Our torso are very subconscious. We don’t really think about which way we want our torso to face. We don’t sit there and say oh I like that I will face it. No our torsos just face what we like. She would even lean in toward me when were standing close. A torso leaning forward is a bigger ordeal because we as I’ve said several times before are drawn towards what we attracted to. So if our subconscious torso is pulling us toward them we are certainly attracted (though not always sexually).
When we flirt a lot of times a woman will turn their head to their side. It is a sign of submission and most girls will do it at some point during courtship. Guys as well, a slightly turned head is something we all do when we flirt. It is a non-threatening signal we subconsciously know to send.
Her and I are very touchy, we put are arms around each other side to side a lot. She will put her arm around my arm, kind of like when you walk with a date on your arm or how you walk down the aisle at a wedding with a bride. I usually put my arm around her with my hand on her waste. We will also put our hands together when we are face to face lacing them through each others hands. We start out by giving each other five and then goes into holding hands face to face.
If you want to maintain or elevate to a sexual attraction you have to place your hand around sexual locations. Touching the hips, sides, inner arm, legs, are far more sexual then just putting your arm around their shoulders. To me this is a sign for a lot of guys that are showing their attraction but scared to elevate sexually and “screw things up”.
There are plenty more she does but she is so attracted it is just so obvious.