After Hanging with My Green Eyed Friend, My Blue Eyed Friend


After hanging out with my green eyed friend I went and hung out with another pair of friends. One is a cute blue eyed female friend of mine. Her and I flirt a lot there is a bit of attraction and sexual tension, I have had the opportunity to baseline behaviors during courtship in her case because this girl’s got game, we all joke about it. So these are some of the behaviors this girl shows.

Distance: With me she stands close, we often stand toe to toe probably around 4-6 inches apart. Base lining the distance between her and others also helps me because she is a huge flirt. You should always check for distance between her and her friends(especially guy friends) and the distance she has given to you.

She is a lot more sexual with me. We say sexual things to each other, she says her little remarks and I return some. She will step over me straddling me, this is obviously sexual it’s not like a girl goes around straddling guys, especially not ones unattractive to her. This requires the tiniest amount of logic.

With me we will talk and although she doesn’t preen a lot, she is a confident girl and doesn’t have many insecurities if any, so when she preens I always know there is some attraction there. She does the smallest things, one of the things she does is runs her fingers down the length of her hair. She will pull her shirt down straightening it. These are small seemingly insignificant actions but it is the timing of these actions that matters.

When we talk her torso completely faces me. Our torso are very subconscious. We don’t really think about which way we want our torso to face. We don’t sit there and say oh I like that I will face it. No our torsos just face what we like. She would even lean in toward me when were standing close. A torso leaning forward is a bigger ordeal because we as I’ve said several times before are drawn towards what we attracted to. So if our subconscious torso is pulling us toward them we are certainly attracted (though not always sexually).

When we flirt a lot of times a woman will turn their head to their side. It is a sign of submission and most girls will do it at some point during courtship. Guys as well, a slightly turned head is something we all do when we flirt. It is a non-threatening signal we subconsciously know to send.

Her and I are very touchy, we put are arms around each other side to side a lot. She will put her arm around my arm, kind of like when you walk with a date on your arm or how you walk down the aisle at a wedding with a bride. I usually put my arm around her with my hand on her waste. We will also put our hands together when we are face to face lacing them through each others hands. We start out by giving each other five and then goes into holding hands face to face.

If you want to maintain or elevate to a sexual attraction you have to place your hand around sexual locations. Touching the hips, sides, inner arm, legs, are far more sexual then just putting your arm around their shoulders. To me this is a sign for a lot of guys that are showing their attraction but scared to elevate sexually and “screw things up”.

There are plenty more she does but she is so attracted it is just so obvious.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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