Meeting Up with My Sexy Green Eyed Friend


Alright so not to long ago a girl I referred to a sexy green eyed girl that hooked up with the guitarist from a band. This girl and I have been texting back and forth, and we finally got an opportunity to hang out. She text me while I was at work asking whether we could hang out while she was waiting for her friend to play a show(a different friend, apparently she know a lot of kids that play in bands). We met up at the bar. However we parked probably like a block apart. So I called her because she didn’t know where the bar was.

I was watching for her as she walked up, I noticed her adjusting her hair and straightening her clothes in the distance. She was already preening. It was obvious she was preparing for me from a distance.

When she got to me finally. We greeted each other and she gave me a hug. This hug like my other friends hug was hip to hip and facing me. Hip to hip is very important, if we aren’t attracted we tend to separate our hips, putting distance between our sexual parts on an unconscious level.

We walked into the bar to meet up with her friend playing an acoustic set. We sat down with her friends. I noticed when we sat down the type of attention she would give her friend. I was base lining her behavior, I noticed when she talked to him she wasn’t preening. You should always pay attention to her behavior in relation to you vs. her relation to other males she is interacting with. This is something I paid close attention to, the first time we hung out she preened a lot.

When we sat down she would look at me, look down, smile, and preen, a cluster. At this table full of other men, including her friend who she came to watch, she faced her torso toward me. He was showing strong attraction signs to her as well.  He put his foot up on her chair, and then kept leaning in to talk to her. You could see he was trying to close the distance and raise touch. He was using stories to build value.

I would flirt back and forth with her and we would have a little conversation. I interacted with everyone at the table. Joking around and being me. Then I would look back at her and we would flirt some with our body language. What I mean by this is we would make eye contact and make faces at each other jokingly. What we would do would be copy each other’s face, copy her posture. We were being like each other. Copying body language is one of my favorite ways to flirt. You guys should try it, it works all the time.

When we were flirting her torso would be facing me and her torso would lean toward me when we talked. This girl would touch me, while in the other case with the male flirting with her she was showing attention but not with the same distance closing and certainly not a matched amount of preening with her eye contact with me. You can tell who the action is directed at by eye contact and the timing of the sign.

When her friend went on we switched sides of the table. When we switched sides we ended up sitting closer.  She continued her preening and leaned her torso in. This was a kicker though, our feet were, close or touching at points in time. This sounds very small but we move our feet away from people we aren’t attracted to, but when we sit at a table and our feet are close there is an obvious attraction(especially at a 6 person table) when she gets her feet close. You can tell if someone isn’t attracted because their feet will retreat.

When we sat closer we also touched more, and continued copying each others body language. There was a lot more eye contact and while they were playing we barely paid attention. We were a bit ingrained in the conversation with each other. You could see she was really attracted when she leaned into me and put her hands and arm around mine.

We chatted a bit when her friend got back to the table after his set. I had to go meet another friend, we walked out together and we hugged and parted, she had work in the morning and that guy was still all over her. I wasn’t going to be one of her minions, we texted later that night for a second.


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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


One thought on “Meeting Up with My Sexy Green Eyed Friend

  1. for me, green eyes is the most beautiful.`

    Latest blog post coming from our very own blog

    Posted by Peggie Hoese | 17/12/2012, 8:06 pm

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