Building Attraction with Saphire Part 1 Thoughts on Attraction


Ok guys, in my last blog I talked a little about what I noticed about attraction with Saphire. Now I am going to go a bit more over what I did. Attraction is a simple and complicated process, it’s so simple because either they are attracted or they are not. After that it is simply a matter of how attracted they are to you.

Before I get there I want to give some of theories I believe on attraction:

What Successful People Do

When it comes to attraction I like to paraphrase something I have read in multiple business and success books. Successful people do the opposite of everyone else. The money is made in business by doing what no one else is doing. When things are under priced you tend to buy and when they are overpriced you sell. Right now all the successful real estate investors are buying up all the foreclosures and using this situation to their advantage. Successful stock market investors are buying the hell out of the under priced stocks and will sell them for a huge profit when the economy improves.

So what I mean by this if all the other guys are walking up to a girl and creepily standing around you want to be the smooth guy walking up and introducing yourself, not staring at them while standing next to them. If you are in a group environment and everyone is hovering around one girl you should be the life of the group without paying attention to her.  If all the guys are intimidated by the girl and avoiding talking to her on the other hand, you need to be the one with balls that will go up to her, then you will be the interesting one doing the opposite of everyone else.

He Who Cares the Least Controls the Interaction

This is pretty basic. I learned this before I knew anything about pick up and it makes perfect sense. This isn’t just true of a courtship interaction, this is the same with business, friendship. The person who cares the least always holds the cards, also true in poker.

Power Balance

This is true of every relationship, there needs to be a power balance. There needs to be a yin to balance out the yang and vice verse. However, in courtship you want the power balance to be in favor of you. The power balance has a direct correlation to my other thought the person who cares the least owns the power.

Responsive Curve

Timothy Perper talked in his book about how every woman has a different response curve. If you over respond to some woman they dismiss you and if you aren’t responsive enough they will dismiss you. In attraction there is a nook you need to find in there. You need to make sure you stay within her Response curve, if you pay too much attention she will not be interested if. If however you pay too little attention she will not feel intrigued enough and move on after a moment. It is up to you to be in the sweet spot.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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