Alright my last Blog I talked about how good my buddy did with one girl. However before the club we went over to visit one of the girls I’ve been hanging out with. This girl is a girl I would have been extremely terrified of before my initiation into the world of confidence. She is easily a 9 for me. I met this girl through a mutual friend, and I’ve been attracted to her for a while now, but she was dating a guy for a long time. I know she has a crush on me, but she is also a very confident girl with a ton of guys constantly texting her. So I know it is a good sign when she is texting me back, considering how many times I’ve seen her ignore a message received.
When I went over to her spot it was later at night, she happens to live down town. So when we were texting she asked me to come hang out. I told her I was bringing my sidekick(my buddy) because we were both heading to the club from her spot.
When I got to her spot she came down to open the door, and hugged me. This is a small sign that most people don’t notice. When a girl gives a hug to a guy they are attracted to they hug hip to hip and with their torso facing you. When a girl isn’t attracted or doesn’t want to give a hug to a guy they often times give a shoulder to shoulder side hug. It seems like a small ordeal but think about it, we face our torso towards what we are attracted to and away from what we aren’t. The hip to hip is completely subconscious, when we are attracted to someone we put out hips in toward them, when we aren’t we push our hips away from them. For instance when you hug your grandma, mom, dad, or whatever relative, you don’t hug face to face hips together, that is a very intimate hug we do that with spouses or people we are sexually attracted to.
When we got to her place me and her are usually a little flirty, she will get touchy, at least for her. Remember we have to baseline the other persons behaviors, some girls are very touchy and other girls are only touchy with people they are attracted to. This girl being a confident girl with a ton of men around her doesn’t need to show interest or elevate things. She needs a man that steps to her, and shows confidence in elevating things.
When we were in her place and I was joking with her. I seen her begin to preen, she is a girl that strokes her hair with both hands and kind of parts it. She was doing her nails so she didn’t really have an opportunity to preen a lot, however I did notice whenever she could she would that particular move. That was her attraction tell.
She smiled and looked down. A submissive action I see it happen a lot with initial attraction. A girl makes eye contact and looks down, Leil Lowness referred to it as the look down. This is a basic sign, a girl does this very often. A smile is basic, we tend to smile at pleasant things, including someone we have are attracted to.
I tend to pay attention to idiosyncratic behaviors(personal quirks), confident girls put their hands on their hips a lot. This girl had a thing about biting her lip, I made mention and she responded with a smile, look down, biting her lip again, turned head, and parting her hair once again. Quite the little attraction cluster, the thing you have to realize about these small clusters is they are over before you know it.