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Before Going to the Club, Hanging with my Sexy Friend

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Alright my last Blog I talked about how good my buddy did with one girl. However before the club we went over to visit one of the girls I’ve been hanging out with. This girl is a girl I would have been extremely terrified of before my initiation into the world of confidence. She is easily a 9 for me. I met this girl through a mutual friend, and I’ve been attracted to her for a while now, but she was dating a guy for a long time. I know she has a crush on me, but she is also a very confident girl with a ton of guys constantly texting her. So I know it is a good sign when she is texting me back, considering how many times I’ve seen her ignore a message received.

When I went over to her spot it was later at night, she happens to live down town. So when we were texting she asked me to come hang out. I told her I was bringing my sidekick(my buddy) because we were both heading to the club from her spot.

When I got to her spot she came down to open the door, and hugged me. This is a small sign that most people don’t notice. When a girl gives a hug to a guy they are attracted to they hug hip to hip and with their torso facing you. When a girl isn’t attracted or doesn’t want to give a hug to a guy they often times give a shoulder to shoulder side hug. It seems like a small ordeal but think about it, we face our torso towards what we are attracted to and away from what we aren’t. The hip to hip is completely subconscious, when we are attracted to someone we put out hips in toward them, when we aren’t we push our hips away from them. For instance when you hug your grandma, mom, dad, or whatever relative, you don’t hug face to face hips together, that is a very intimate hug we do that with spouses or people we are sexually attracted to.

When we got to her place me and her are usually a little flirty, she will get touchy, at least for her. Remember we have to baseline the other persons behaviors, some girls are very touchy and other girls are only touchy with people they are attracted to.  This girl being a confident girl with a ton of men around her doesn’t need to show interest or elevate things. She needs a man that steps to her, and shows confidence in elevating things.

When we were in her place and I was joking with her. I seen her begin to preen, she is a girl that strokes her hair with both hands and kind of parts it. She was doing her nails so she didn’t really have an opportunity to preen a lot, however I did notice whenever she could she would that particular move. That was her attraction tell.

She smiled and looked down. A submissive action I see it happen a lot with initial attraction. A girl makes eye contact and looks down, Leil Lowness referred to it as the look down. This is a basic sign, a girl does this very often. A smile is basic, we tend to smile at pleasant things, including someone we have are attracted to.

I tend to pay attention to idiosyncratic behaviors(personal quirks), confident girls put their hands on their hips a lot. This girl had a thing about biting her lip, I made mention and she responded with a smile, look down, biting her lip again, turned head, and parting her hair once again. Quite the little attraction cluster, the thing you have to realize about these small clusters is they are over before you know it.

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I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic

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