Watching My Buddy….


Situation: I went to the club tonight. It was a solid time. While at the club I got to see some girls go after my buddy. My buddy gets a lot of attention, good looking guy, if he would gain some confidence kid would do very well with women.

As I watched the interaction begin I seen her smile and look at him. I noticed an initial attraction when she walked up. We were standing by the door outside and as she opened the door she walked up to us. Froze then  as she pulled out a smoke said” do you got a lighter?”

She sent an overture, with so much space around it was obvious she preferred this area for a reason. She paused next to him. Her and her friend were a bit sloshed. As she stood next to him her torso started facing him then switched to a 45 degree angle, then she again switched to facing my buddy. Our torsos are a very easy read, with the exception of confrontation any time we are facing something we like it. When we start to lean toward something we are showing  subconscious want to get closer.

I separated myself from them so that he could isolate her. She was leaning into him and touching him by this time. Wrapping her hand around his arm and moving her arm around him here and there. All my buddy had to do is isolate and elevate. In fact, she was elevating for him

As soon as she seen him as she walked out the door she pulled her hair away from him, a small hair adjustment is a preen as well. She started preening more often, adjusting her hair, not necessarily stroking it but she was consistently re-adjusting it. Preening is an obvious sign of attraction, what isn’t always obvious is when someone is preening. Any adjustment in clothes can be a form of preening and in the grand scheme of attraction is usually preening. This girl also was adjusting her sweater(25 degrees out tonight), she would pull it down, smooth it, and straighten it.

She would turn her head to the side. This is a sign a girl is flirting and a submissive signal. Most girls will turn their head when they are looking at you and interested, it is a small thing but it happens pretty frequently.

After I walked away, they also began dancing at some point in time. My buddy loves to dance, that is why we go out, not to pick up girls but to dance. So while they were standing there he began to dance a little. She started dancing up on him and straddling her legs around his. This was as easy as it gets. The attraction was too obvious not to notice.

In this case he snagged her number and they are suppose to kick it tomorrow. Go sledding, or whatever, she was just looking for a reason to exchange numbers with him. He could have put out her fire as she referred to it but he made the excuse he has class in the morning.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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