Situation: I went to the club tonight. It was a solid time. While at the club I got to see some girls go after my buddy. My buddy gets a lot of attention, good looking guy, if he would gain some confidence kid would do very well with women.
As I watched the interaction begin I seen her smile and look at him. I noticed an initial attraction when she walked up. We were standing by the door outside and as she opened the door she walked up to us. Froze then as she pulled out a smoke said” do you got a lighter?”
She sent an overture, with so much space around it was obvious she preferred this area for a reason. She paused next to him. Her and her friend were a bit sloshed. As she stood next to him her torso started facing him then switched to a 45 degree angle, then she again switched to facing my buddy. Our torsos are a very easy read, with the exception of confrontation any time we are facing something we like it. When we start to lean toward something we are showing subconscious want to get closer.
I separated myself from them so that he could isolate her. She was leaning into him and touching him by this time. Wrapping her hand around his arm and moving her arm around him here and there. All my buddy had to do is isolate and elevate. In fact, she was elevating for him
As soon as she seen him as she walked out the door she pulled her hair away from him, a small hair adjustment is a preen as well. She started preening more often, adjusting her hair, not necessarily stroking it but she was consistently re-adjusting it. Preening is an obvious sign of attraction, what isn’t always obvious is when someone is preening. Any adjustment in clothes can be a form of preening and in the grand scheme of attraction is usually preening. This girl also was adjusting her sweater(25 degrees out tonight), she would pull it down, smooth it, and straighten it.
She would turn her head to the side. This is a sign a girl is flirting and a submissive signal. Most girls will turn their head when they are looking at you and interested, it is a small thing but it happens pretty frequently.
After I walked away, they also began dancing at some point in time. My buddy loves to dance, that is why we go out, not to pick up girls but to dance. So while they were standing there he began to dance a little. She started dancing up on him and straddling her legs around his. This was as easy as it gets. The attraction was too obvious not to notice.
In this case he snagged her number and they are suppose to kick it tomorrow. Go sledding, or whatever, she was just looking for a reason to exchange numbers with him. He could have put out her fire as she referred to it but he made the excuse he has class in the morning.