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Stress in the “Alpha” Male

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For some of you forum members this will be a repeat of some of the things that I’ve said for those unrelated here is some thoughts on the “Alpha” male of a social group in animals.

They are low stress (glucocorticoids), and high fun(dopamine). This is a study in which Dr. Robert Sapolosky tracked the chemical level in relation to baboons in Africa, this has been an on going study for him. There was another study in the UK comparing job status to medical needs(social medicine plus government positions makes for a pretty linear relationship, though obvious variables exist) paralleled the baboon  study.

This is a very basic break down of what these studies mean, basically the males who have the highest status (most mating opportunities for baboons) tend to have a higher then average dopamine level, meaning they have more fun.

So guys if you want to represent the guy that is “Alpha” and get’s lots of female attention it is best to go out and have fun and not STRESS it. Other things you can do to lower your stress level include meditation and self hypnosis(same thing from a brain wave stand point). I tend to meditate about half an hour every day, and self hypnosis another half. Relaxing your mind and body can make you look like a far more attractive mate after all who is interested in someone who is always anxious? Anxious people put you on edge.

People tend to reflect your energy so if you have fun they have fun, if you are relaxed they have a much easier time being relaxed. Confident people tend to lack anxiety but show a more relaxed attitude in stressful situations(they may still stress, everyone does). So remember relax everyday for at least 10 minutes everyday and have fun to show “Alpha” status in public.

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