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A Sexy Girl, Two Guys, and Me: Part 4 of 4

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Back on the Bus

When we were walking back to the bus she said she needed a ride home. I offered, she told me where she lived, it ended up being a couple blocks from my house and not even out of the way. She agreed but the boys didn’t want her to go home, they were still trying to hook up with her, not realizing she was over them.

We all went back to the bus together, my buddy offered to try to sit in the back and giving me time alone with the girl, I decided the bs wasn’t worth it. I watched as the boys continued to try to put moves on her. The birthday boy put is arm around her on the bus. she stayed neutral. No hand holding, no leaning on him(until she passed out).

I was still enjoying their attempts. They seemed to be absolutely clueless that she wasn’t attracted to either of them. When the birthday boy put his arm around her he put his other hand on her thigh. He was still very attracted to her while she was merely comfortable with touch.

When they got on the bus at first she put my hat on. At this point it was quite obvious I was the front runner. They were still trying hard but she was putting my hat on. As soon as she gave my hat back he put his hat on her. I watched her look up and around and ask who’s hat it was, the birthday boy said “mine”. Often times a guy will put a hat on a girl to show who’s girl she is. This to me is the same as saying “that is mine”, if a girl puts your hat on it could definitely mean she is willing to be “yours”. In this case she immediately put the hat back on his head.

As soon as the birthday boy went to the restroom, his buddy went for it. He put his arms around her and tried to touch her hand. She didn’t reciprocate any touch. She merely stayed neutral. When the birthday boy got back in his seat he tried to put his arm around her. It didn’t work out, it was awkward, so he gave up. He left his arm pointing up and pulled back, he wanted to put his arm around her but that is as close as he could get his arm around her. This was an intent action, he was trying to put his arm around her to say “she’s mine” and his buddy was wrapped around her. She passed out a little before this, so I was merely watching the boys body language.

During the trip he went to wake her up, he shook her and caressed the bottom of her chin, he also moved her hair behind her ear. It looked like he wanted to kiss her while she awoke. She moved away and shook him off in a disgusted manner(even did the disgusted face), subconsciously she was completely not up for it. She showed it loud and clear and he missed the entire message. She did give the birthday boy mixed signals but overall she didn’t seem to be interested in “hookin’ up”.

The birthday boy offered to give her a ride in the morning, she denied repeatedly. He was missing that she wasn’t interested. He even got a hotel room across from where the bus was (he didn’t want to drive drunk was his “reason” though it obviously had 2 motives). She was saying I am not interested, he was saying I am interested and we can make this work.

When we arrived to the bus stop he had his buddy go get a room. While he was grabbing his stuff, I waited for her since she needed a ride home. He really, really tried to go get her to come back to the room he was getting. It did not work out, she wanted to go home.

Driving Her Home

I drove her home and it was about a twenty minute drive, we talked, she preened. She giggled, she smiled, to sum it up she showed her attraction. I took her to her house, she was upset I hadn’t called her number so she that she could have mine. So I rang her to give her my number, she obviously wanted to make sure we would talk again.

She extended an invite for a drink inside and I happily obliged.

This was a good example of guys trying to get the girl, saying she is off limits with their body language, while watching the typical guy misunderstanding the body language of what the girl was actually saying, which is I am interested in that guy. A typical courtship situation we see everyday but quite a bit more aggressive.

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