Once we got to the hotel we all piled off the bus.
Off the Bus
When we got off the bus they invited us to go eat. I opted out giving the boys (it was ones birthday) some time with her. I noticed her wrapping her hands around the inside of my arm and pulled me over when she went to invite me to eat, I rejected her. She made strong eye contact and smiled at me. Edges of her mouth were turned up, smiling eyes(go give a genuine smile truly in the mirror and you will see smiling eyes), and a slightly turned head, she was giving submissive behavior. Flirting with me.
As I wandered around the casino I ran into them on several occasions. On the first occasion we randomly met it was merely a look. She smiled, something very underrated, you don’t want to be scowled at, but you don’t want a forced smile either. Check for smiling eyes, turned up corners of the mouth (rather than tightened lips a sign of anger), and eye contact to make sure she is smiling at you. She had a slightly turned head, a sign of submission, she was giving me the “I like you” look.
When I was in reach on the second time around she reached out to touch me when I walked near. This time she accompanied her usual genuine smile, and head nod with a slight grab of her hair with a touch of lip bite. She was sending me a nice little cluster signal that I dissected a little better later. This cluster is very usual for physical attraction, by this point you guys should be seeing this everywhere if not open your eyes and you will start to see it everywhere. She was showing a physical attraction. Again at this point with 2 other boys giving her a lot of attention I wasn’t positive who she was attracted to.
The third time we seen each other one of the boys put his arm around her as if to say mine. He was “showing his territory”. He noticed we were giving each other a little bit of special attention. This is something a lot of guys do and it was also something I seen on the bus. A lot of men will walk up and do this to their girlfriend when they are talking to another guy. Guys who like a girl will sometimes do this as well, if the girl doesn’t like him most of the time they shrug their shoulder letting their arm fall off of them.
When we ran into each other the fourth time she was with one of the guys and we flirtatiously bumped shoulders. She accepted the touch, but more importantly she reciprocated it. She was giving me that same cluster, smile, eye contact, the slightly turned head, but this time it was the head whip she added for preening. She also put her hand on the inside of my arm, didn’t pull me but this is a private area most girls avoid if they don’t like a person, it isn’t necessarily a sign of attraction but it is definitely a positive signal that they at the very least like you. Most people avoid touching the more private areas such as the inner part of the arm especially when they aren’t attracted to a man. You guys will get that feeling that they like you when they do this but won’t know why. This is when we say things like I think she likes me or it feels like she likes me. Most of the time we are right we just aren’t ever “sure”.
Girls are proceptive creatures, we have to decipher their signs and become responsive to their signs. We need to play close attention to what they do, girls do a lot of things on purpose. Most of the time we brush things off that a girl goes out of her way to do, when we do this they feel rejected. In this particular case I was reciprocating the flirtatious behavior she was giving me because of this I kept her on the hook. I made sure not to go overboard as it was obvious that both those guys were really after her and it wouldn’t have been with in my particular ethics to go after her in this situation.
To be continued….