Situation: She quit her job. She was celebrating moving on. She came in to my work and invited me to her quittin’ party. With this particular girl I have noticed a previous attraction.
Her Initial Reaction: She ran up and hugged me. Gave a huge smile and a waste to waste hug. Obviously a waste to waste hug is important because at the very least subconsciously they are comfortable with their genitals being quite close. This will tell you how truly comfortable any girl is, when she hugs you waste to waste it is a very positive signal.
I had to catch up with her as I was with some friends already. I wandered over when I was done, she was with her two friends that were dating. So we talked, we hadn’t seen each other for months before that day so we caught up. During the conversation she showed signs of attraction.
When she talked she had a very genuine smile. The sides of her mouth were turned up and she was “smiling with her eyes”. She was making strong eye contact showing me she was directing it at me. She had turned her head sideways and exposing her neck. She was showing genuine interest in our conversation as well so she was nodding her head forward.
She began to stroke her hair. She would pull her hair behind her ear as she smiled. She started to fidget with her hair. She even braided her hair. She was preening all over the place. Hard to miss, even if it was before I knew any of the signs I would have noticed. When we sat she began to pull her boot up, continuing to adjust her appearance. She was definitely bringing attention to her self and adjusting her appearance for me.
She would look down after strong eye contact and get fidgety here and there. She was a bit nervous, she had the behavior of any girl with a crush. Showing me the submissive nature involved of courtship. At the same time she would show elements of the sexy sensuality of a women.
When we were standing she began to face me more and more. Her foot was pointed towards me, her torso was angled toward me, and she was leaning forward toward me. She was not only showing me “all of her” but she was getting closer to me. She was comfortable being close and obviously comfortable with touch. It was as if her body was reaching toward me.
After we sat near each other she crossed her legs underneath the table. Her legs were pointed toward me. Her feet were near me. This is very important, when someone is comfortable enough with you that she is willing to put her feet underneath the table near yours then she is very comfortable and even more likely interested in you. You don’t put your feet close to your mom, dad, or best friend, neither did she, if she does this she is likely very attracted to you.
We began taking pictures making funny faces. She took pictures of herself wrapped around me(didn’t realize until I seen the picture). She was very attracted to me based on her smile, where her arms were on me. The presentation of her body, pushing out her ass and pushing her chest up against me. She was screaming sexuality at me both in the picture and in person.
There was a lot of touch involved through out the night. It started with the hug, but then moved on to her putting her arm around me. I reciprocated, wrapped my arm around her. There would be shoulder bumping(flirtatiously). When we went outside to go to grab food after the bar she wrapped her arms all the way around my arm. It was cold and she was using me for “shelter”. She felt safe that way.
When we got to the restaurant and were finally seated we ordered. Me and her began to flirt, bumping shoulders, I rubbed her back and she leaned her head on me. We were both winding down. Things continued on, she had proven she was more then a little attracted to me. She had shown all sorts of attraction cues including being very happy to touch me, reciprocating any touch I gave her.
By the end of the night, she was comfortable enough for me to continue to follow the phases of courtship.