Fly Green Eyed Blonde


Date: 1-30-11

Situation: She quit her job. She was celebrating moving on. She came in to my work and invited me to her quittin’ party. With this particular girl I have noticed a previous attraction.

Her Initial Reaction: She ran up and hugged me. Gave a huge smile and a waste to waste hug. Obviously a waste to waste hug is important because at the very least subconsciously they are comfortable with their genitals being quite close. This will tell you how truly comfortable any girl is, when she hugs you waste to waste it is a very positive signal.

I had to catch up with her as I was with some friends already. I wandered over when I was done, she was with her two friends that were dating. So we talked, we hadn’t seen each other for months before that day so we caught up. During the conversation she showed signs of attraction.

When she talked she had a very genuine smile. The sides of her mouth were turned up and she was “smiling with her eyes”. She was making strong eye contact showing me she was directing it at me. She had turned her head sideways and exposing her neck. She was showing genuine interest in our conversation as well so she was nodding her head forward.

She began to stroke her hair. She would pull her hair behind her ear as she smiled. She started to fidget with her hair. She even braided her hair. She was preening all over the place. Hard to miss, even if it was before I knew any of the signs I would have noticed. When we sat she began to pull her boot up, continuing to adjust her appearance. She was definitely bringing attention to her self and adjusting her appearance for me.

She would look down after strong eye contact and get fidgety here and there. She was a bit nervous, she had the behavior of any girl with a crush.  Showing me the submissive nature involved of courtship. At the same time she would show elements of the sexy sensuality of a women.

When we were standing she began to face me more and more. Her foot was pointed towards me, her torso was angled toward me, and she was leaning forward toward me. She was not only showing me “all of her” but she was getting closer to me. She was comfortable being close and obviously comfortable with touch. It was as if her body was reaching toward me.

After we sat near each other she crossed her legs underneath the table. Her legs were pointed toward me. Her feet were near me. This is very important, when someone is comfortable enough with you that she is willing to put her feet underneath the table near yours then she is very comfortable and even more likely interested in you. You don’t put your feet close to your mom, dad, or best friend, neither did she, if she does this she is likely very attracted to you.

We began taking pictures making funny faces. She took pictures of herself wrapped around me(didn’t realize until I seen the picture). She was very attracted to me based on her smile, where her arms were on me. The presentation of her body, pushing out her ass and pushing her chest up against me. She was screaming sexuality at me both in the picture and in person.

There was a lot of touch involved through out the night. It started with the hug, but then moved on to her putting her arm around me. I reciprocated, wrapped my arm around her. There would be shoulder bumping(flirtatiously). When we went outside to go to grab food after the bar she wrapped her arms all the way around my arm. It was cold and she was using me for “shelter”. She felt safe that way.

When we got to the restaurant and were finally seated we ordered. Me and her began to flirt, bumping shoulders, I rubbed her back and she leaned her head on me. We were both winding down. Things continued on, she had proven she was more then a little attracted to me. She had shown all sorts of attraction cues including being very happy to touch me, reciprocating any touch I gave her.

By the end of the night, she was comfortable enough for me to continue to follow the phases of courtship.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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