Date: 1- 18-11
Situation: Working. I work in a quite social atmosphere. There are more then a few cute young women who expose their attraction to me. This is a 5 minute conversation with one of them, and some of the signals I seen.
So when the conversation started, it began with a big smile. Her smile included her eyes smiling, gleaming at me per se. She added solid eye contact and a slightly turned head. She was directing her submissive behavior at me. This young women is very confident, interning to be a physical therapist at the local university. Smart girl with an aura about her.
The conversation started with those three and she began to face me. Her body pointed toward me, she had one foot out pointing it towards me as we talked. Her foot pointing toward me indicated she was most interested in me. All of her attention was on me. She was showing all of herself to me by exposing her full torso to me.
She had her wrist exposed to me indicating she was very open with me and her arms were held away from her body. She wasn’t putting up a barrier, she was opening herself up to me. An indication she is very comfortable with me and wants to show me all of her. Wrist exposure is also a common submissive action, subconsciously we all know the sensitivity of the wrist (slitting your wrists is because their is a major artery there) and exposing it is a form of submission.
Her body language agreed with me and she began to mirror me as I turned my head to the side to show her I was listening. She did the same as we both nodded our heads in sync together showing we are not only listening to each other but like each other.
She began to touch her face, bringing attention to it. She was adjusting her hair, as she grabbed her pony tail to make sure it wasn’t ugly. Making sure it looked good for me. Worrying about your appearance is a sign of our insecurity, it also helps bring attention to certain areas. She pulled down on her t shirt straightening it. She rubbed her hand against her thigh pushing down her pants. Straightening her appearance all around.
All of these attraction signs happened in less then a 5 minute span. In fact I walked away twice to help 2 other people. She stayed and waited for me to walk back to talk to her both times. Waiting to talk to someone is a huge action of attraction. It should be taken into consideration when looking at her attraction signs as well.