Date: Not Sure
Situation: At the bar. I was sitting at a table looking over to my left. The couple on “The Date” were sitting so I could see the woman’s face while only having a view have the back of the man’s head.
Through out the course of the night you could see it start as an interview. They obviously had a physical attraction for one another. The comfort level was that of a high school crush with shyness on both sides. She started with a smile and strong eye contact. I could see she was interested in him. This women happen to be Latin American(born outside of the U.S.) and had a stronger sexual independence then most girls in my state.
When she laughed at his joke you could see her head bobble. She was ditsy in her expression and obviously attracted to him. Her neck looked as if it was on a spring bouncing around. You guys have all seen the close up on camera in any movie. The women seems smitten by him as she gets some what air headish and ditsy.
As she started to turn her head and expose her neck. I could see a gleam in her eyes and a grin. She was giving him her fool attention as she propped her elbows up on the table to expose her wrist. You could see her show submissive behavior, when she gently moved her necklace back and forth across her neck by the chain. She was preening by fidgeting with her jewelry.
She began to move her hair across her face as she was letting him know she was attracted to him. Preening by fidgeting with her necklace and hair. She walked to the restroom and as she stood up she adjusted her shirt. She walked away adjusting her pants. She was very concerned about her physical presentation in front of him and you will see it with so much regularity if you just open your eyes.
When he went to the restroom she straightened up and put on some Chap Stick. She was giving him bedroom eyes. She would bow her head slightly and look up at him while batting her eye lashes. She was really just blinking at a higher rate. You could see the excitement and attraction in her body language. The gentlemen at this point seemed unsure still, he seemed unsure and slow to act all night.
We went outside and they happen to walk out for a smoke. I watched them interact, they seemed to be quite early in the relationship, there wasn’t much comfort with intimacy. No holding hands or hugging though the temperature was 30 degrees. The man seemed completely unconfident in her liking him, at least not confident in his read of her liking him.
She would go to the restroom and he would come back straightening his appearance. As would she when she would leave for the restroom she would return straightening up though not as much as he was. His chair was facing the direction of the restroom.
Her arms and hands were reaching across the table as if she was asking for touch. She was asking him to touch her, she went half way and any of you would have seen the same. You just might not have noticed. She began to stroke her hair as she would expose her neck. Occasionally rubbing her hand up and down her arm, showing him how she would like to be touched.
The hair preening, literally stroking her hair was uncontrollable. She was looking at him submissively. Giving him her full attention, lean towards him, reaching towards him, and facing towards him. Her eyes looked to be bedroom eyes(didn’t have a close enough look for pupil dilation). Her head was slightly down while she looked up at him with a slightly turned head and a smile. Everything was showing attraction. She wanted him as she moved her hand up and down the cylindrical glass, sexual subconscious motion much?
Finally the women came back from the bathroom far more independent. She came out and rather than sitting down when she approached she walked beside his chair and kissed him. In this case the gentlemen was very timid, so the women chose to come out and kiss him. From that point on when she sat she reached across the table and he held her hand. They were far more intimate, they finished there drinks and disappeared shortly after.
This was a basic example that you can see even during a hook up. You can watch two people begin to interact and things elevate. This isn’t limited to dates it is just the best example because two people are together already attracted to each other having drinks to make them feel good which they then associate together and eventually “celebrate” together with “Whoopie!”.