The Girl with a Crush


Date: 11-13-10

Situation: I work in a very social environment, the amount of transactions per week is over 10000. Obviously this allows for a very wide variety of individuals to come to my work. As a manager I get to interact with several different people, including several different women from old to young, ugly to pretty, cool to snotty, etc. This is a few attraction cues from 3 women.

The Girl

This girl works in our store, she is borrowed help from another store. With this particular girl it was easy to see she was attracted to me, she admitted it on one occasion(well I got her to). As of recent she has been far more reserve because of a guy she is sort of seeing, they have been seeing each other off and on for years.

The Smile

This particular young women gives out a beautiful full smile. She smiles with a slightly open mouth(relaxed jaw), smiling eyes, slight tongue exposure, sides of her mouth pointed upwards, and you could see some of her teeth.  You can tell when a person is faking a smile, if you are having a hard time seeing a fake smile you can go to a mirror and fake different smiles. We often times times fake smiles to be polite.


This girl does the head whip quite a bit. It is a form of preening and it often times helps gain attention due to the movement involved. In television it shows a girl moving her head back in forth, that is a bit blown out of proportion. This particular signal is more of a quick head movement, that moves her hair out of the way.

She will get someone goofy in front of me and wave at me trying to get attention. She has a hard time looking away from me and gets some what ditsy with a bobble head. Fun to watch a girl trying to catch your attention. You guys will notice the bobble head if you pay close enough attention, it happens more often then they should because they are comfortable.


Her preening signal that seems to come more often is she grabs her ear. It is almost as if you could see her shying away and hiding her face. It is usually with two fingers, perhaps she use to wear different earrings and would adjust. Note: Sometimes when people are lying they will grab their hear, a common sign during deception. Bill Clinton was seen doing this on occasion during the Lewinsky debacle.

Another thing she does with regularity is she moves her hand across her forehead putting her hair behind her ear, an obvious preening signal. She was adjusting her hair and bringing attention to her face. Often times she would touch her hair, sometimes moving it behind her ear other times she was straightening it.

She would adjust her shirt(smock actually, work uniform), she would pull down her shirt. Some time pull it out at the signs, a subconscious signal she was adjusting her shirt to show her figure. A women does this more often then you realize.

Another thing you guys will notice is a women adjusting her ring, sometimes showing that she is not married girls don’t admit it but it is a subconscious sign. This girl does this quite often, this girl adjusted hers spinning around sometimes, or pulling it off and on her finger. Married women sometimes will play with their wedding ring as if they feel it is a barrier, I steer clear of these women.

Girls are more giggly around guys they like, they feel as though everything is funnier because they feel good. When girls laugh at everything you say it is an obvious signal they at the very least appreciate your company. I already mentioned the bobble head effect, this happens a lot but we rarely notice.

Submissive Signs

This women happens to turn her head slightly as so many do to expose her neck, you will notice this happens almost every single time. Any time you are willing to expose your neck you are obviously being submissive, dogs do this when they are submitting to the alpha dog all the time. Every animal does this, including humans in their own way.

This women happens to open her palms and expose her wrist, everyone knows that a main artery is there and therefore if we are willing to expose this we are comfortable and find the person in front of us non-threatening, 2 signals you need when in the courtship process(otherwise it is rape). Open palms is basically saying that you have no weapon and that you are not hiding anything.

The Eyes

With this girl she often shows submissive eyes, this can be a few different things, one of them includes turning her head down and looking up at you. We all bow before someone submissively. A good way to show you are non-threatening to a girl is to bow slightly so you look up at them with your eyes when shaking hands seems to be charming for most girls.

Other times she would look down, sometimes down and away. The inability to make eye contact at some point looking away is an obvious submissive sign, this is something you don’t want to do early in courtship. This is a sign you submitted, early on it shows you are not confident, if you say something that seems offensive you can do this with open palms while apologizing. Something I notice I do quite often to show I am non-threatening.

She also makes very strong eye contact while smiling and showing submissive signals. This way she lets me know the signals are direct at me, if a girl is doing all these signals but looking at your friend it is obvious they were not meant for you. Always look for eye contact, this girl would sometimes make eye contact than look away submissively shortly after preening. This combination is very common in courtship.

The Blush

This girl will turn bright red when I flirt with her or compliment her. Sometimes it happens on her cheeks but most of the time it starts at her ears. We have all seen a girl that blushes, I am sure I don’t have to go to deep into this one.

Sum it Up

All of these signs happen in almost every courtship process you can see these things all the time. There maybe a few signs that don’t happen but more often than not these signs almost always happen. Pay attention guys and you will notice when girls like you.

Sorry for the length but kind of figured you guys would like all of the notes.


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One thought on “The Girl with a Crush

  1. It is certainly interesting for me to read the article. Thanx for it. I like such topics and everything that is connected to them. I would like to read a bit more soon.

    Kate Swift

    Posted by Kate Swift | 24/02/2011, 11:09 pm

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