Watching the Pretty Boy…



Situation: I have a pretty boy friend, when he is doing well he cleans up. When he doesn’t he is awkward, he needs attention from girls to be successful. This guy goes through a lot of girls. He tends mess around with a lot of girls.

We went down to my favorite little bar. Played some pool. A girl situated herself so she was closer to us. At some point this girl ended up talking to “Pretty Boy” while we were playing. I watched her talk to him, she was attracted to him but holding back. Her toes on her right foot were pointed at him. She was waiting for some friends.

It was easy to tell there was an attraction to him. She slowly started by chatting, she straightened her appearance starting with her coat. An occasional touch/adjustment to the hair, she was preening. You guys have all seen these cues but likely overlooked them because of how subtle they are.

At this point there bodies were neutral, they stood side by side while his body seemed to be facing hers a bit more. He was showing her more attraction than she was showing him. We were playing pool so he was forced to step away here and there. You could see she stood more awkward when he walked away.

As the conversation progressed their bodies began to face each other more. They grew closer and the space was slowly closing. There was an occasional touch to the arm, but not much reaction from her. You guys have all met this girl, a girl that didn’t react positively or negatively, well no reaction is a positive reaction. If she stiffens up you may need to back up to make her more comfortable. This is a fear reaction she is freezing. She didn’t acknowledge or deny the touch. It seemed as if she was very comfortable with him but that she was holding back.

They began to face each other more and more, however she was a bit reserve so as they faced each other the distance opened up a bit. I noticed when she got a call she made herself less available. She had increased the distance. You should always pay attention if you move toward a girl and she moves away you probably need to let her become more comfortable with you. She happened to be doing this.

Her body started to point away, she wasn’t as engaged after she received the call. She was still preening here and there. There was an occasional adjustment of her coat and jewelry, she adjusted her necklace most often. You could see her interest, but you could see she wasn’t quite available.

Later I realized why she was so reserve. I seen her friends arrive. She was waiting for her male friends. I seen she was attracted to her friend, I happen to know him, small world. When they came we chatted for a minute. Made some arrangements to meet at the next bar. We caught up later but she was stuck on that kid when we met up later. The moment had passed as both Pretty Boy and I could sense.


About Science of Natural Game

I understand what it’s like to be that guy who struggles with women. I was god awful with women, I not once but twice went multiple years without sex, and I promise it wasn’t by choice. Ignorance played a large role in my issues with women, if I would have known now back in the days my dating life would have never slouched. I got desperate for affection with women, I wished I could have more. I read those pick up manuals, I read books by scientists on courtship. I went out and experienced what worked for me, and what “worked for others”. I found a process that makes every man skilled with women. I realized something else, yeah some of this stuff might work for some guys but we are all a little different and that’s a good thing… what I say may not be what you say, but there is a simple science and process to getting good with women and if you follow this process you will indeed be happy with your abilities with women. The most important thing for me is for you to be you, I don’t want to change who you are, I want you to love who you are, I want you to understand who you are, and I want you to be happy about all of it. I won’t ask you to dress up in peacocking outfit, I’ll ask you to be the most attractive guy by giving you skills and assets. Being you will be the peacock, will get you the attention of beautiful women. Most guys will simply tell you what to say and that will get you laid… but what happens when I am not here to tell you what to say? When what I have to say feels bland and not quite you? I don’t want you to be anyone else but you, the best you and the Man you want to be. I won’t tell you what to say, I’ll teach you to have a conversation. I won’t lie to you, I’ll tell you how it is and give you the facts. I won’t say it to be mean, I will say it for you to grow and become your best you with women and for you. I want you to be honest, knowledgeable, and sexy, and you will be when I’m done with you. Knowledge is power, and honesty is sexy…. I am not asking you to be anyone else, after all everyone else is already taken. If you need help or support with anything I am here, because I care about you. I want you to be a great, I want you to be all you can be. I want you to be your best self and that means I am here to support you in all your endeavors in life, not just with women but living the life you want… if you want to travel let’s figure out how, if you want to dance let’s teach you, if it’s weight loss let’s figure it out, if you want to surf let’s get you on a board, let’s give you the life you want and dream about, to let you be the you dream of being. I feel there is a process to getting women and more importantly getting good with women, it’s a science and if you follow the process it will work for you. Science isn’t about what’s true, as the truth is merely a perception science is the process we conclude will give us results… that’s what I give guys – results, the ability to get the women that will make them happy and help them live the life they love. Peace and Love, Vic


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