I went to a Dead Prez concert on Sunday. There happens to be an ex-customer(she moved) that I use to flirt with at the show. There was quite a bit of sexual tension between us but circumstances always seemed to barricade any possibilities.
I walked up to greet this cute young women, we smiled and hugged. She straightened her shirt as the conversation began. She had already started adjusting her appearance for me (preening, look at me).
During the usual “hoping to see you here” and catch up talk she began to give me plenty of positive signals. Her torso was leaning toward and angled toward me, you guys have all noticed this subconsciously. A girl does this quite frequently and you guys will start to notice it more and more often.
She was granting me a genuine smile with slightly parted lips and mouth. You can see a difference between a forced smile and a genuine smile, just look for both those signs. You will probably also notice the corners of her mouth to be pointed up.
Her head was turned ever so slightly exposing her neck and submitting before me. This is one you guys should start seeing a lot more often, this happens in almost every good conversation. You need to pay very close attention for this one. She was completely comfortable with me.
When she laughed her head bobbled like a school girls. Funny to notice this one, if you look at one of those bobble head dolls you will see the head bounce around. A girl does some thing similar when she is genuinely laughing. In addition to this she was occasionally stroking her hair, adjusting her hair behind her ear, moving it across her forehead, consistently preening her hair. Consistently adjusting her appearance and saying look at me.
Occasionally in the conversation she would shrug like a little girl(submissive) as we laughed. We were bumping shoulders and flirting as the occasional kino took place. She does have a boyfriend unfortunately he is a bit of a d-bag IMO. Realizing it is a bad idea to pursue this any longer I walked off to join my friends.
I walked over to the bar and ran into her while we were ordering drinks. We hip bumped flirting with some Kino. We just hugged and we had our arms around each other for a second and she leaned her head on to my shoulder showing she felt comfortable and safe in my arms. She stroked her hair as we pulled ourselves apart. A lot of the signals repeated including the submissive ones such as a slightly turned head and preening such as shirt adjustment. We got our drinks and went our separate ways once again.
You guys should realize these signals don’t even last a second in a lot of cases, they are here and gone, that is why you can notice so many. You may not notice all of these. Most of these are easy to miss because they happen so quickly. Once you become a keen observer they will be automatic. You will register them and just know what to do.
After the concert was over my friends went to the restroom, I decided to open a blonde who looked incredibly apathetic about her night. I walked over to greet her and she was just dry, so I looked over and seen the ex-customer. I walked over we flirted a little more and we talked. I said we got to make these meetings less coincidental, I had already noticed that she had pulled her phone out, she was ready to exchange numbers at least that is what her body language was saying. We exchanged integers and hugged good bye.
A lot of times if a girl wants you to get her number she will grab her phone. When she wants to leave and get your number she may pull out her phone acting as if she is looking at something. This really is a subconscious sign that she wants to get your number or exchange numbers. If she is grabbing her keys she may have to go soon or want to.
This was a very easy number close, all I did was what she wanted. She flirted I flirted, She gave contact I gave contact, she pulled out her phone and we exchanged numbers. I literally just played push pull with her by following her body language.