I went to a buddies spot to watch the U(Utah) play and my friend’s wife’s friend was there. I sat on the couch with a cute green eyed Hispanic girl. There were instant signals of attraction. The way we were situated made eye contact difficult as the TV was not in the direction she was and at that time I was far more interested in the game.
It was very difficult not to notice her attraction to me. As I sat down she leaned forward to adjust herself. She pulled her shirt straight to straighten out her appearance for me(preening). She had her torso angled toward me, she was giving me a full view of her body(showing her self off). We all tend to face the people that we are most attracted to, in rare cases it is the most aggressive person there that we are confronting.
Though eye contact was difficult I would look over and make eye contact when we were talking. She would smile/grin, preen, and look away(submissive), not necessarily in that order. There was obvious sexual tension building between us.
As the night moved on the eye contact would get stronger and far more frequent. Her pupils began to dilate as our excitement and attraction to each other began to increase. The later the night went on the more likely it was strong eye contact with dilated pupils. The intimacy was there now. Bedroom eyes were beginning to show.
She started to preen her hair. Stroking her hand down her hair, and looking over at me. She was adjusting her appearance and bringing attention to her face so that I would notice her. She had a slightly turned head, this exposed her neck as a sign of submission. Often missed little sign that is usually accompanied by a bobbly laughing head. Her mouth was slightly parted. The corners of her mouth were pointed upward, even when she faked her frowns. She occasionally would lick the corners of her mouth.
This girl in particular was trying to ignore me by playing a game(solitaire on her i pod). However she showed her intentions with brief eye contact followed by preening and submissive movements. She would look down, turn her head slightly, move her head down while looking up at me with her eyes, wrist exposure was out standing(very comfortable sign). During the course of courtship she showed a lot more submissive signals, these are the ones that strike me now.
As the game(football) continued we moved ourselves closer together, the distance was closing and touch was not an accident. I had initially put down a pillow between us to create a small safety barrier(I didn’t want to be a Space Invader) but now she was comfortable and the pillow was only in the way. I moved the pillow away and gave her feet some room to pop them up on the couch. At this point her feet were touching up against me, a sign she is extremely comfortable when ever they are willing to put their feet on you. After all they are giving you their only means of escape, their feet.
She had her knees popped up with her feet touching my legs. I rested my forearm on her knee, and let some of my arm droop down her thigh(touching her as much as possible). I was at this point leaning up against her legs for support. She was very comfortable with me, sexual tension was there, and intimacy was present.
She put her hand on her right knee(my arm was on her left). She was reaching her hand out to be touched. I obliged, I put my hand on hers and we started to gently and sensually touch hands(sensual touch in courtship). I had my hand over her’s with my fingers in between, our thumbs were gently caressing each other’s hands.
Everything was easy going from here.