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“Do I Know You?”

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8-26-10

Situation:

Dance Club, a girl was dancing on the stage(not a Go Go) while I was dancing on the dance floor.

I was scanning the the floor and stage while I was dancing. I noticed a attractive young Hispanic women dancing on the stage. I looked up and waited to make good eye contact. I was looking up so it was obvious who I was looking at her. She noticed me and we made strong eye contact for a few seconds until she looked away.

After this she danced with more movement. She began a more sensual and sexual dance it had more movement in an effort to gain my attention. Many animals do this, they dance to gain the attraction of a mate. She preened her hair and moved in a far more sexual way.

Most of us have made solid eye contact with a girl and watched her dance with more sensuality. If she looks at you and makes eye contact and than immediately begins with a far more seductive dance she is trying to impress you. Most girls do this to publish their sexuality, very sexy and we as men love it.

I went to the bar for a drink, cute blonde was there, her elbow extended on the bar slightly toward me, her head was tipped slightly submissive, and a slight smile. She adjusted her hair a few times and pulled her shirt straight(a form of preening, straightening her appearance for me). Some ska hit the old sound makers and me an this young blonde skanked with each other. We began to dance in unison and this is when my target came to me. The blonde got her drink we talked for a second than she walked away(it was to loud there).

The blonde had left and I began to dance again waiting for a drink my target(the Hispanic girl) began to bob her head. Than she started to dance a bit in sync with me. She was obviously practicing isopraxism and adjusting her hair. She had relocated herself so that we were next to each other at the bar(there is a line for this bar that you wait in). Her body language was direct at me by this point. Her torso was angled towards me and leaning into me. Signs she found me non-threatening  and attractive.  Her foot was pointed at me and her neck showed a smidgen submission, she turned her head slightly to expose her throat. A slight smile on our faces, I finally turned to greet her.

“Hi, how are you?” Me

“Good, do I know you?” Her

“Nope” and than some more was said, playful but a little mean.

She began to touch me and insisted we knew each other, I gave her a little more of a hard time because I didn’t know her. Her hand began stroking my arm, our shoulders were touching, our feet were now close, and she began stroking the inside of my arm. An obvious sign of sex, she wasn’t just stroking me(pun intended) she was stroking a long cylindrical arm. Her hand was clamped around the inside of my arm caressing it. Our torso’s were nearly completely facing each other not completely but very close. I smiled at her dismissed her and walked away. My drink had come and I know longer had a reason to be around.

I went back to the dance floor and she went back up to the stage. There was again strong eye contact smiles, preening(hair and clothes), and serious dance movement followed my solid eye contact. She moved sensually, one of her friends began to dance up on her, though they had danced together before she did not dance with him. She had previously grinded with him and she was now pushing him away.

She walked away from her friend, grabbed a drink at the bar and came by me on the dance floor. It was obviously to talk to me once again, I had rejected her already and she was intrigued by me. She kept saying she knew me so I finally asked her name. I actually did know, her had her number a year earlier, she was a delete.

She hugged me and began preening(this time stroking her hair). “I just got out of a bad relationship”, she was making excuses about things from the  past. She grabbed my arm and stroked it for a moment. This was my mistake I should have isolated here and I made the mistake of denying her once more, whatever figured small club, I wanted to keep my options open for some others I had a lot of eye contact with.

I went for the salvage mission, I actually had a crush on her a year earlier. She was a stewardess, would be sweet to travel with her for cheap. Pretty fly girl all around, so I went on the salvage mission. I was pretty ruthless to her that night.

I walked to her while she was talking to two of her male friends. Both of these guys had the style of guys that pull their own in tail. The little rock star kind of look. Both were Alpha’s from a body language stand point. Stout shoulders, wide stance and head held high, they were use to getting girls. One of them was pointing his body language towards her, he was obviously attracted to her.

I walked up this time I embraced her a little more. Welcoming body language is my style so I continued on to use it, this time I opened up a little more and began to joke. She began to shift her body language away from her friends and look toward me. I could see the one guy getting very  uncomfortable and quite territorial over this, so I introduced myself. He opened up we talked for a second than me and the girl began to go back to where we were(body language wise), feet  close she blocked him off and we started to talk like we had in the past. Our feet were close now, a sign of strong comfort. We were shoulders together with our torso’s angled to each other, she was very comfortable with me and very attracted. She began to preen, straightened her dress and stroked her hair. We talked again and hugged.

Than her friend that liked her realized how much head way I was making so he headed for the door and turned to look. He watched us for a second, then said “we have to go” and went back and grabbed her to pull her away. She was obviously not satisfied with that but he was her ride. As she turned back to her friend she looked at me with her toes pointed toward me. She smiled and looked down, gave a sad wave during this short time period, less than a second, she got dragged away. I made the mistake of not grabbing her for a second and snagging her integers.

I made more than a couple of mistakes, but I will see her again and this will be resolved.

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